Fallen Heroes of Operation Iraqi Freedom

Remembering the servicemembers who died in the service of their country.

Marine Lance Cpl. Jason C. Redifer

19, of Stuarts Draft, Virginia..
Redifer died as a result of hostile action in Babil Province, Iraq. He was assigned to 1st Battalion, 2nd Marine Regiment, 2nd Marine Division, II Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Lejeune, North Carolina. Died on January 31, 2005.

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"MERRY CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN SWEET JASON.I MISS YOU EVERYDAY AND NEVER STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"TODAY IS THE 10TH ANNIVERSARY OF YOUR DEATH. IT HURTS AS MUCH AS IT DID THE DAY IT HAPPENED.I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. I LOVE YOU."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY JASON
I LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS"
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"MEMORIAL DAY IS HERE AGAIN. REMEMBERING YOU AND YOUR SACRIFICE. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"A BELATED MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPY NEW YEAR.I HAVE TO KEEP GOING TO DRS. HAVING MORE SURGERIES. I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"Jason...WE LOVED YOU FROM THE DAY WE MET YOU!You will always hold a special place in our family's heart!I still remember you coming to the house before going to Richmond for a field meet..All recruits stayed with us that night you wer the last to come in from a day of hard work just ready to eat ,shower & find a place to rest!I remember Scott asking you where your running shoes were your response I got my boots and can beat anyone with running shoes on & that you did:)!We miss you dearly & will never be forgotten...Semper Fi"
Kellie Craft of Beaufort SC

"IT'S MEMORIAL DAY ONCE AGAIN. REMEMBERING YOU AND THE SACRIFICE YOU GAVE FOR YOUR COUNTRY. I LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU TILL THE DAY I DIE."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"JASON IT WAS 7 YEARS AGO THAT WE GOT THE WORST NEWS WE COULD EVER GET. IT HAS NEVER GOTTEN EASIER FOR ME. I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH. I'LL NEVER GET OVER LOSING YOU. YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY HEART"
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"MERRY CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN MY SWEET NEPHEW. I THINK YOU WERE MY ANGEL AT IHOP THIS AFTERNOON. I MISS YOU STILL AND LOVE YOU VERY MUCH."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"I think about you often, remembering the times, words and letters we shared. You halped me through though times. I still have every letter you ever wrote me and all the pictures too. Love you man, miss you even more."
Tanya Cale-Graves of Staunton, Va

"HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY AND VETERAN'S DAY. SORRY I AM LATE BUT I HAD CANCER AGAIN AND HAVE NOT BEEN WELL. I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH.I MISS SHOPPING FOR YOU AND YOUR BROTHERS.HOW I WISH YOU WERE HERE."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"I was driving over Jason's bridge today in Stuart's Draft on the way to my daughter's doctor's appointment. I was compelled to find out who you were, and I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for selflessly sacrificing all you had so that myself and my daughters may
live freely and without oppression. You are still very much alive in the hearts and minds of your family, friends, and people like me who never take your sacrifice lightly or for granted. You are a true hero. Thank you again."
Laura of Fincastle, Virginia

"To the family of:Jason C.Redifer
I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. My heart cries out for you in your grief and you have my thoughts and prayers. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Prayerfully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to, please call or write my pastor: Rev. John Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd., Covington, GA 30016. (770)787-1015.
Your friend in Jesus Christ, Polly Ballew Covington,Ga""

"RED, i miss you brother not a day goes by that i don't think of you. I am out of the Marines now but like you once a Marine always a Marine. i go around the country telling our story i always bring you up whever i speak. ive told pro athletes actors and politicians about you. I wish you were here brother i have 3 kids now my wife and i want to name our next one after you if its a boy. to my squad member SEMPER FI Brother"
tony stevens of ft walton bch fl

"HAPPY LABOR DAY.WATCH OVER ME TOMORROW. I LOVE YOU"
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"JASON WE GOT BIN LADEN. I KNOW YOU WOULD BE CELEBRATING. WISH IT HAD BEEN A DECADE AGO AND MAYBE YOU WOULD STILL BE HERE WITH US.I LOVE YOU."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"HAPPY EASTER IN HEAVEN JASON
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH. I AM SO PROUD TO HAVE BEEN YOUR AUNT. YOU WERE THE BEST NEPHEW EVER."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"HI MY SWEET NEPHEW
I'M MISSING YOU AND REMEMBERING THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD. I AM SO THANKFUL I HAD THOSE 19 YEARS WITH YOU. I LOVE YOU"
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"MERRY CHRISTMAS MY SWEET NEPHEW. I REALLY MISS YOU. YOU BROUGHT SO MUCH HAPPINESS TO MY LIFE. I KNOW YOU ARE HAVING A GOOD TIME IN HEAVEN.I LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL.I WILL KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY JASON. HOPE YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR DAY IN HEAVEN. I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU FOREVER."
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"Really thinking of you tonight"
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Remembering you on this Memorial day. Thank you for laying down your life so we as Americans can have freedom. I'll always miss you and love you"
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Happy Easter Jason,
I missed you today. I spent Easter with my family. I love you sweet nephew. Wish always that you were still here, but you are always in my heart"
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Hi Sweet Nephew,
I miss you and love you so much. Only you and God know how I feel and what has happened. I cherish every moment we had together. Save me a place."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Hey Jayson tasha realy misses you she talks about you alot and she even got a neclas with your picture on it that she wears all the time. she realy liked you and i think she had even wanted to marry you but i guess that wont happen :-( she realy loved you Jayson and i think she still does but i dont know o well talk to you latter"
JessicA James of Weyers Cave, VA

"We love and miss you and thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. HOORAH! Always Remembered!"
Steve Lewter of colorado springs, CO/ Jbad, Afghanistan

"hey jason i love you we miss you"
jessica of stuarts draft va

"It's Veteran's Day, a day to thank you for giving your life for your country. I love you and am proud of you."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Happy Marine's day. I love you and miss you."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"hey Jas

I miss you so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you always."
Tarah Lotts of Greenville, VA

"Hey My Nephew,
Happy Fourth Of July. This is a day to honor those of you who are no longer with us and to honor you. I was in the parade and carried the Marine flag and wore your purple heart and picture. I miss you so much and I love you with all my heart. Save me a place next to you and until then Happy Trails Cowboy"
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Hey Jason,

I graduated last Saturday. I had the white dress, green ivy, red roses...everything. It was surreal. I was Valedictorian, too. Your mom says that you would be proud of me. I think you would've laughed. In fact, every time I start to cry I think about you and how you would simply laugh and shake it off. I miss you, a lot. Courtland was my usher. He held the crook for me, and it was great. He was my 6th grade buddy. Irony? That you were my senior buddy and I was his? No...I planned it that way. :] He is so much like you in so many ways. He is such a little gentleman. I hope he keeps that quality throughout life, because there are so many boys who don't. I wish you were here to give me advice sometimes...I could really use your insight. I also have a feeling that I would listen to you and not make so many mistakes. At the rate I'm going, my heart will have been through more than it can take by the time I'm your age. You'll always be my big brother. I miss you so much. Keep watching over me, please. God knows I need it. <3"
October Edwards of Staunton, Va

"Jason,
Today is Memorial Day and I was thinking about you and the sacrifice you made for our freedom. Not a day goes by that I don't miss you and would love to hear your Howdy and your laughter. Until we meet I love you."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Hey Nephew,
Your Mom graduated from college Saturday. I know you would be proud of her as we all are. Courtland got a BMW for his birthday and he can drive good. He and Scott are going to work on it together. He and Carter have really grown into wonderful young men. I love you."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"hey brother its been some hard years with out you around ive been down to see your mom shes still just as good of a woman as always well i have 2 lilttle girls now the oldest is going to be just like we were and the youngest is only 7 weeks old well brother i miss ya and hope u are saveing my seat for me when i get there. be good brother"
josh

"Happy Easter my sweet nephew. I love you and miss you so much. Colton is turning two. I remember when you were two. You're still my guardian angel."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Rhonda and Family,
I share the great loss you have suffered.May God richly bless each member of your family."
Kathleen Nicely of Clifton Forge, Va.

"I came across your name and your memorial bridge when looking for something on Google. I was compelled to find out who you were, and I'm glad I did. I just wanted to thank you for everything you've done, and for how willing you were to sacrifice so that people like me, one year your junior, have been able to continue our lives freely. God bless you. My condolences go out to your family and friends."
Shannon of Uncasville, CT, USA

"To the family of Jason Redifer I want to say how truely sorry I am for your loss. There isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't think about Jason and what he did for his country. I never got to met Jason but my brother did know him, US Marine CPL Jonathan Roberts of Waynesboro, Va. He was very close to Jason and talked about him all the time. My brother took it very hard, he loved serving with Jason. I pray the dear Lord will bring you peace and comfort in knowing that Jason was loved by so many. I keep a picture of Jason in my car next to my brothers to remind me never to forget freedom isn't free and how precious life is. May God bless you all and keep you in his loving care."
Michelle Whetzel of Grottes, VA

"Dear Jason,
Today marks the 4th anniversary of your death and it is still hard. That day will forever be embellished in my head and in my heart. I try very hard to remember all the good times, but every year when this day rolls around it all comes flooding back. I miss you and love you so much. Someday we will be together and you can meet me with Howdy, Glad you're here. Until then stay happy in Heaven."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"January 18, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Jason C. Redifer:
Jason gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV

"HAPPY NEW YEAR JASON
I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH"
AUNT RITA of HARRISONBURG, VA.

"Merry Christmas Nephew Cowboy,
I sure miss you.I worked with Toys For Tots this year and I know you were there everytime I heard toys making noises. You are still pulling pranks. Hopefully I will get to see your brothers this week-end. It's amazing how they are growing. You would be so proud of them. You raised them well. I can see a lot of you in them You were such a joy in my life. We had some great times. Remember the trip from Harrisonburg to Covington and what happened on the way and the Burger King story. Keep up with all the other cowboys there. I love you my Sweet Nephew."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"happy birthday Jason I miss you so so much"
Tarah Lotts of Greenville, VA

"Happy Birthday Sweet Nephew,
Wish I could give you a big hug and have you a party, but I'm sure you are having your own party in Heaven. Happy Belated Veteran's day also. I love you very much.I miss you everyday. Have a great birthday"
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Howdy Jason,
Well I finally got moved 3 weeks ago as you know since you have left your messages here. It's comforting having your spirit with me. I know you always watch out for me. I love you Nephew."
Aunt Rita of Harrisonburg, Va.

"Happy Labor Day Jason,
I am getting ready to go to see Mark Warner. I am moving this week-end and will be closer to your Mom and the boys. I can't wait. I miss you and I love you very much. Courtland and Carter are young men now. They are no longer our little men. They are so smart. You would be so proud of them. I certainly am just as I was proud of you. I am a very lucky Aunt. Love Ya."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Hi My Cowboy Nephew,
Today is Carter's birthday. He is 10 today. Can you believe it. He was on the radio this morning. I called a friend who got the station and listened to him over the phone for about an hour. He was fantastic. You would have been so proud. Your Mom brought the boys up yesterday and we had the best time. Your Mom and I had the best talk and it felt so good to really feel like sisters I hope we will always be this close. I know we will have our disagreements, after all we are sisters. Courtland is going to Stuart Hall. Isn't that exciting. I know you will be keeping an eye on him. I think he should be able to graduate now. He is so smart. Carter is still his funny self. Guess what? I am in the Rescue Squad now. I can just hear you saying, of those poor patients. Tell your Grandmother I am taking care of her car. I love you and miss you. You're always with me and that is a comfort and a joy. Didn't we have some great times in those 19 years? Happy Trails Until We Meet Again."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Virginia

"Dear Jason Happy 4th of July I hope you enjoyed it in Heaven. We love you"
Jessica of Stuarts Draft Va

"Dear Jason,
Happy Memorial Day. Thank you for what you did for us. You are the Hero of Stuarts Draft. WE LOVE YOU."
jessica of Stuarts Draft, Va

"Dear Red,
Its been a long time but I will never forget you or the boys that I lost on 31Jan. Me being the only Corpsman on that patrol I wish I could have used my skills in a manner that would have prevented the inevitable, but you and I both know that the LORD works in mysterious ways. I will never forget you since we shared the same birthday. It actually gives me a reason to look forward to getting a year older every year.
I talk about you all the time to my fellow Iraq veterans but what we had will never be the same. If you see Swain or Z-Bo, tell them I haven't forgot about them either.
Save me a spot in the fighting hole up there will ya brother?
HM3 ERIC ALLEN "DOC""
HM3 Allen, Eric of Portsmouth, NH

"I saw your name on the sign when I stopped at a red light. I had to find out who you were. Thank you for the sacrifice that you have made. It does not go unnoticed."
G.L. Camarda of Fishersville, Virginia

"Dear Jason Happy Easter, Thank you for what you did for our Country. You are our HERO."
Brittany of Stuarts Draft ,Va/usa

"Happy Easter Sweet Jason,
I wish you were here so I could fix you a big Easter basket and bring it to you. I guess you and your Grandmother will be spending Easter together this year. I'm sure you are showing her around Heaven. I'm sure by now you have said Howdy to everyone there. I miss your Howdy's. I will send you a balloon tomorrow. Hope you get it. I love you and miss you my sweet nephew. I know you have been watching over me."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Virginia

"Dear Jason Happy Easter. I thought you might like this poem.It's called God's Loan I'll lend to you for a little time A child of mine,he said. For you to love the while he lives, And mourn for when he's dead. It may be six or seven years Or fifteen plus three, But will you till I call him back, Take care of him for me? He'll bring his charms to gladden you, And should his stay be brief, you'll have these precious memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay since all from earth return, but there are lessons taught down there, I want my child to learn. I've looked this whole world over In my search for teachers true, And in the crowds that throng life's land, I have selected you. Now will you give him all your love, Not think the labour vain, Nor hate me when I come to call To take him back again. It seems to me I heard them say Dear Lord, Thy will be done; For all the joys thy child shall bring The risk of grief we'll run. We'll shelter him with tenderness, We'll love him while we may, And for the happiness we've known, Forever grateful stay. And should the angels call for him, Much sooner than we've planned, We'll brave the bitter grief that comes And try to understand."
jessica of stuarts draft,Va/usa

"Happy Valentine's Day My Dear Nephew. I Love You And Miss You."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
Today makes 3 years that my heart got broken when you left us. Today brings it all back. I know your Grandmother is there keeping you straight. I miss you every day. I am very proud of you and am very proud to have had you as my nephew. You were one of a kind. I have wonderful memories of you and lots of pictures. I'll always cherish them as long as I live. I'm sure that when you look down on us you are glad you are in a better place. Know that I loved being your Aunt and I love you very much. Keep watching after me as you have been. I guess by now, everyone in Heaven is saying Howdy. Bye Cowboy."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
I guess you know by now that your grandmother died the 1st. I'm sure you have a lot of catching up to do. Keep an eye on your mom and me. We love you."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
Merry Christmas My Nephew. This is the third Christmas without you and I miss you so much. I know you are in a better place. When I lost you, I lost my family I miss not being able to see Courtland and Carter. I know how upset you would be to know how I have been treated since you left. I'll always miss you and love you. I miss your smile and your laugh and those big bear hugs. I know you are in Cowboy Heaven. I wish I were there with you. Take care and I will write to you later."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Happy 22nd Birthday Jason,
I hope you are enjoying your birthday with all the cowboys in Heaven and Father Fox. I will send your balloons after while. I miss you so very much. You were my light on the darkest days. I love you very much. Enjoy your day. God knows you deserve it."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear My Dearest Nephew,
It's Veteran's Day and a time to remember and thank you for laying down your life for your country. I am extremely proud of you as always. I saw your niece and nephew last week. what a joy. You would have them spoiled rotten and they would love you. Jasmine will be 2 next month and Colton is 7 months old and smiles all the time. Your birthday is coming up. I will set off balloons to you for Veteran's Day and your birthday. Wish we could celebrate together. My heart is still breaking over losing you. You will forever be in my heart. I love you Jason and miss you very much."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Jason,

I recently had the pleasure of meeting your mother... what a special lady. She gave me her book, and although I am struggling with it due to the emotion, I feel as if I somehow know you.

Thank you for your service and sacrifice, and my sincere condolences to your family and friends.

Biker Bill

Grandfather of one of the few.. the proud.. the Marines. Cpl. Andrew J. Smith"
Bill Cook of Sherrills Ford, NC

"Dear Jason,
I would like to say thanks. For your sacrifice to this country. The reason we are a free land today is because of heroes like you who defended this great Nation. God Bless the Redifer Family"
Jeff Brooks II of Staunton, Va, USA

"Dear Jason,
Well it's Labor Day and I have been thinking about you so much. I miss all the funny things we did and the things you said. You were one of a kind. Life has not been the same since you've been gone. I know you are in a much better place than here on earth although you are with me everyday. There have been a lot of changes going on, some for the best, and some for the worst. I'll bet you and Father Fox are having a great time together. Hopefully, you are not giving him trouble up there. I miss you Cowboy. I'll always love and miss you and remember all the good times since you were born."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"It was an honor serving with you as part of 2nd Platoon 3rd squad. I'll never forget how you, Swain and I used to sing and change the lyrics on all the 80's hair bands just to make fun of the different members from our company. I still laugh to this day about how we tied up Howard that one time and threw him in the mortar bunker. The last thing i'll never forget is the Honda Civic you had, how we 5-50 corded it up to look good and that night how you accidently hit that dog and the bumper fell off. Man that was a long night but still we had some good times."
Anthony Bagnasco of Duluth Georgia

"Dear Jason,

First I would like to say that it was an honor serving with you my brother. You will always have a place in my heart along with Swain and Zimny. I would like to thank you and all my brothers of 1/2 A.CO. Love Always."
Evis Mejia-Perez of Miami, FL

"Dear Jason,
Thanks for the buttercups for Mother's day. You've never forgotten. If you see Mama tell her Happy Mother's day for me and I love and miss her very much. Thanks for the mementos this week. I know you know what is going on and how I need you around now. Take care cowboy. I love you."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
You had a little nephew born today named Colten Jason Redifer. He weighed 7lbs.1oz. We will have a lot to tell him about you. You would be so proud. Justin and Missy are great parents. Jasmine is really growing. She is a doll. You know how I loved to spoil you and Justin and then Courtland and Carter. Now I have Jasmine and Colten. I miss you very much and love you. Hope you send Buttercups again."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,

I miss you, though that's probably obvious. I still remember that time you took my mom and me to Kline's and bought me ice cream. I remember every single time I stole your cowboy hat. I remember your smile and that mischievious twinkle in your eyes. I remember how you could make anyone, and everyone smile, at least once, every day. Any one you met immediately liked you, even if they didn't want to admit it. Believe it or not, I've grown up. The last time you saw me, I was just 11 or 12. In your eyes, I'll prolly be the annoying little daughter of Mrs. Edwards(Hinkle). I can deal with that. But I'm 15 now, I'm old. My boyfriend wants to go into the military. The airforce, to be exact. I don't want him to go. I'm so afraid that, when he eventually does, that I'll lose him. You are one of the reasons he wants to go. You've inspired him like you've inspired so many. I think about you everyday. I can only hope that you are looking over me, with that mischievious smile on, makign sure I'm "behaving". You are a hero, Jason. And you will always, no matter what, be my hero.

I Love You..."
October Edwards of Staunton, Virginia

"Happy Valentines Day my sweet nephew. Thought about you all day. Hope you and Miles are taking care of each other. You will always be in my heart forever. I love you."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
It has been two years ago today that you were taken from those of us that loved you and the hurt I feel is just as it was two years ago. I miss you so much and think about you every day. We sure had some great times together. I wish you could see your little niece, Jasmine. She is a year old now and adorable. In April she is going to have a little brother. Justin and Missy are great parents. Courtland and Carter have grown. They are not little boys anymore, but young men that you would be so proud of. You will forever be in my heart. Maybe someday I will be able to go on better than the last two years, but right now, that's not happening. Know that I am so glad that your Mom gave me four of the best nephews I could have ever asked for. I Love You."
Aunt Rita of Covington,Va.

"Howdy Chuck,

I went out to lunch with your mom today. We spent most of our conversation on you, like always!! We were reflecting on alot of the good times that we shared, and those times when you loved to embarass me just to see how red my face could get, haha. I must say that I miss you more than you could ever had imagined. Those last conversations with you right before you were suppose to come home are charished forever with love in my heart. You always said I was your "Red-headed Angel", and I know that now you are my guardian angel watching over me and my family just as you did when you were here with us. Always know that I love you Jason, and I will for eternity!! I miss you so much."
Tarah (Lotts) Bassett of Greenville, VA, USA

"we share in your greif....
my grandson harry r swain iv was with jason. they passed into heaven together. GOD BLESS
kaylas_granny60@yahoo.com"
carol camp of HENDERSON, NC

"Happy Thanksgiving Jason. Wish you could have been here to have dinner with me. I know I would not have had any leftovers. I am extremely thankful that I had you for my nephew for 19 wonderful years. We had so many good times and funny times. Thank God for memories. I Love You Very Much."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Happy Birthday my nephew. I hope you have a good one. I love you. I miss you very much."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
Happy Veterans Day. Thanks for giving your life for your country and family. That was the person you always were. One who would go the extra mile. I miss you so much. Nothing has been or ever will be the same without you. You would be an uncle again in March. Courtland and Carter have really grown. I rarely see them. I never see your Mom.Only you and I know how much my heart is broken. I have been left out of the family since you left us. I hope you have seen Patches. Watch over her please until I get there. I love you with all of my heart. I wish you were still here with us. You were and always will be the greatest nephew. See you soon."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"I've already left one message for Jason and for his family, but since Rhonda came to speak at Stuart Hall, and my friend Tori reminded me of what I'd written before, I figured I might want to come back.

I love being able to read all the things that people have written to or about him. It's really amazing...some people didn't even know him, including myself, but are still inspired by his story. Every time I walk in or out of the library, which I do several times a day, Jason's eyes in his stoical USMC picture are watching me, watching all of us. Some people mght find that strange, but to me...it's a comfort. I know that Jason's uniform will probably be in Stuart Hall until the school stands no more. It's just a symbol. Once my class, the class of 2009, the last class that knew Jason while he was at Stuart Hall, once we graduate, the underclassmen will be left to tell his story. They'll be left to spread the word about the cowboy that died for his country.

I'll most likely be posting often in memory of Jason. He deserves it.

As does his mother, Rhonda Winfield. She's such an amazing woman. Anybody who can use a tragedy and turn it around to open people's eyes about the war in Iraq and use it to give everyone a better understanding of the preciousness of life deserves to be praised."
Alora Howard of Staunton, Virginia.

"August 19, 2006
Jason,
I can still vividly remember the distinct sound of your cowboy boots on the wood floors of Stuart Hall as you walked down the hallway. As you would enter the room, the smell of horses would fill the air. Mud would still be clinging to your boots and you would prove that the rugs did serve a purpose (hehe). You could easily brighten a room with your wit and charm. It sounds very cliche, but it can only be truly accomplished by those few individuals in the world that are wise beyond their years. Your eyes told a story; one could almost go swimming in them if they allowed themselves. You exuded passion. This could be seen in your loyalty to your friends and family (and later your country, as well).
I will never forget how you would chase Mike down the hallway in a full sprint for whatever reason. You two would be laughing the whole time.
You were the first to bring me hand-picked wild flowers (and the last). In any case, we had a rare understanding that I miss tremendously. We never revealed much about each other, to each other; but we didn't need to.
On my last, very short, visit to Stu, I found myself searching for signs of you. You were there; in pictures and in the hearts of those who knew you. I miss you more than words can say.
And the answer to your question, Jason, was yes.

"When beggars die there are no comets seen;
The heavens themselves blaze forth the death of princes."
--From Julius Caesar (II, ii, 30-31)

With Much Love,
Pilar"
Pilar of Boerne, Texas

"Dear Jason,

It's Fourth of July . . .

We think of you so often, and miss you so much, especially on days like today. The world is a dimmer place without you, though we know heaven's streets are safer with you on duty.

We miss you."
SSgt.&Mrs. Ian Watson of San Diego, CA

"Dear Jason,
It's Memorial Day Week-End, a time to stop and remember those who gave the ultimate sacrifice for our Country. Thanks for giving your life so that all of us, especially your brothers, may grow up in a better and more peaceful world. I know that you are at peace and in a better place than those of us left behind. I am very proud of you and what you did and what you stood for, but it doesn't get any easier trying to go on without you because you brought so much happiness to me and everyone who loved you. Know you will always be missed and not a day goes by that you are not thought of. I love you very much. Just think, Courtland will be 10 Monday. The first time I saw him you got him out of his baby bed and brought him to me. It seems like yesterday. He and Carter have grown into fine yong men and you would really be proud of them. Happy Trails."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"To the family of jason ,
I meet jason a long time ago back when i lived in staunton. Jason taught me all i needed to know about being a cowgirl and how to be strong. i will never forget going through a drive through on prince and punk... only jason would do such a thing. He will forever hold a place in my heart .
I thank God for the time i spent with Jason and i pray to God to keep his family safe."
Emma-jane Allcott (the brit) of aix-en- provence France

"Jason Charles Redifer

I sit at my desk and I think about the young men that are 18, 19, 20 ---- in this country that are free and not in service to our country. I just recently got one of them a job as a machinist and it could just have easily been a rifle that I gave him to go war. He was 19 ---- I think I saw you in him. All of us in America owe a debt to men like you. Most people don't even know your name or face. Most of us don't even know January 31,2005. Most of us don't remember 9-11 either. Freedom is not free. Men like you pay the ultimate price. I pray for your family and your friends that you personally touched during your life on earth. I know they miss you every moment they are awake and in their dreams. I keep your picture from your memorial service on my bulletin board. I was passing by when they held your service and I had never seen so many cars at a church. When I stopped by afterward they gave it to me. I use it to remind myself of what you stood for and what you did for us with your life. Just what we should be remembering as we take our lives and freedom for granted. I want you to know that I appreciate what you did for me here on this earth and that I don't take it lightly. I don't take my Lord and Master Jesus Christ's actions lightly either. Freedom and Salvation are closely related terms. You gave me my freedom, and He gave me my salvation. I know you are with Him as we speak.

Thank you Lord and
Thank you Jason,

Until we meet face to face

your servant and friend,"
Frank Hodges of Radford, Virginia, United States of America

"Daer Jason,
Happy Easter. This is the second one without you and it breaks my heart. I would have loved to have come to Arlington this week-end, but I know that you know why I didn't get there. Hope you got what I sent. I miss you more, never less, all of the time. You were such a great nephew, but more like a son to me. I love you very much. We had a great relationship and wonderful times together. I'll never forget them as long as I live. I got your little message yesterday. It's nice to know you were there. I think about you everyday. There will never be another Jason. keep everyone in Heaven laughing. Until we meet again I love you Cowboy.

Aunt Rita"
of Covington, Va.

"Jason, I know you probably don't remember me, but i was that girl at the bull riding in Medina, Ohio at the county fair that asked for your number and never called. I was searching the web to see if you were still riding bulls and i saw that you had passed fighting for our country. Thank you. to your family, I dont know what it's like to loose someone in Iraq, but i know how hard it was to have a loved one gone over there. My boyfriend just came back in Dec. Your family is in my prayers... and i will never forget you..."
Mandi of Homerville, OH

"Jason,

You didn't know me, and I didn't know you. I go to Stuart Hall, where you graduated from. I know somehow you'll know about me writing this. I just have a feeling. I want you to know that I respect you so much. I have a friend in the Marines and I respect him, too.

To Jason's family,

You don't know me either. Just know that if you ever read this, I respected your son so much. Everyone at Stu misses him very much."
Alora Howard of Staunton, Virginia

"Howdy Jason well its been a hard year with out you i hope you are bringing as much joy in heaven as you did in all the years we hung out and rode together well jason you will always be my hero and you will never be forgoton i miss you alot"
josh brown of staunton va usa

"Dear Jason,
Today has been a year since you were killed. Our hearts are still breaking. You were one of a kind and you will always be in my heart. I hope to see you up in Heaven one day. You would be so proud of your brothers and your Mom and Scott, your little niece,Jasmine, and hopefully of me. Be with your Mom today and help her get through today. She was so proud when she got to let me see you the first time when you were a baby. You were so cute and how she loved you and always will. I love you my sweet nephew. Thaqnk you for our special moments this past year.

Aunt Rita"
Rita Lockridge of Covington, Va.

"thanks"

"To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Jason Redifer,

I don't know whether or not we are related but I ran across Jason's name while checking on someone we knew and also lost in Iraq. I just wanted to say thank you for Jason's service to our country and let you know how proud we are to share your last name. You are in our prayers and may God be with you."
Tom Redifer & Family of Yakima, WA USA

"Dear Jason,
You had a little niece born today. Justin and Missy named her Jasmine Sky Redifer. She has black hair and weighed five pounds. I haven't seen her yet. I know you would have spoiled her rotten. I gave her a little Shrek outfit and wrote a note telling her how much you loved Shrek and that the outfit was a remembrance of you. I will tell her all about you. I'm sure she will wish she could have known her Uncle Jason. I Love You."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Jason (RED) was one of my best freinds. we had met in SOI (school of infantry) we got to the fleet on his 18 birthday i will never forget that day or any other day with him. we went to iraq and spent 7 months there getting ready to come home and then he was killed in the same accident i was seriously injured in i thought i was a KIA also i did not know about his death untill feb around the 14-16 when some freinds of ours came and visited me and the other marine that was seroiusly injured also they told me that he went peacefully i told them that it could not have happened to him
he was a great person a very jokeingly person. Jason was a person that really want to get the job done he was a joker and a hard worker he loved to go to the beach during the summer when we had time off. i cant remember how many times we done stupied things but did not get in trouble for there were some great times with him we would stay up untill the wee morning hours watchuing OLD SCHOOL that was our favorite movie there were so many other things that we done it was just unbeliveable.

Jason man i miss you very much it is not the same without you any more or Swain or Zimny but me you and the gang had great times i just want you to know that i think about you all time you are one of a kind freind
this is to the family of RED
i want to thank you you have been there for me an Jamel we both cared so much about jason b/c he was a great freind and you are all one of a kind i have never met people that care so much for people. that is great i love you all you are like my family now. you are all in my hearts. i want you the family to stay strong and belive for me
respectfully LCpl Ronal Howard"
LCpl Ronald Howard 1/2 Alpha Co. 24th MEU of Bethesda Maryland National Navel Medical Center

"Jason,
Here it is, our first Christmas without you. It wasn't the same. You should see how big Courtland and Carter are now and how smart they are. I wrapped you a present and told your Mom to put it in your room. You've probably already gotten the cowtail candy that you loved so much. Your Mom gave me dog tags like yours. I will cherish and wear them all of the time. I miss you all the time, but especially now at Christmas. Your niece is going to be born soon. Imagine, a girl in the family. Merry Christmas my wonderful nephew. I will always love you. Thanks for still letting me know you arealways around me in our secret way. You are still a prankster and cowboy. Until we meet again."
Aunt Rita of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason's Aunt Rita,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know that there are no words that can make your pain go away. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll forever hold a special place for you in my heart. May God be with you in this time of sorrow. And remember that Jason is forever with you- in your heart and memories and he won't be forgotten."
Christine

"Dear Jason,
This was the first Thanksgiving without you. There are no more family get togethers like they were when you were living. There is such a void in our lives that cannot be filled. You were always the one with so much life and fun. I miss you and I miss all of those times. I'm not doing Christmas this year. I know you are in a better place, but it is still hard. I always enjoyed shopping for you. Know I will always love you and miss you."
AUNT RITA of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
Happy 20th Birthday my most beloved nephew. I miss you more than you could ever imagine. I sent some balloons off this afternoon for you. You would be so proud of the Memorial that was built and dedicated to you. You were loved by so many and so respected. Thank you for giving your life for all of us here. I am proud of you and thanks for the memories. They are a treasure as you are. I Love You."
AUNT RITA of Covington, Va.

"Dear Jason,
As promised, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers especially today because it would have been your 20th Birthday. Well, today is my 20th birthday too and I plan on having a couple of drinks in your Honor. Happy Birthday...You won't be forgotten."
Christine

"I just want to say thank you for all the beautiful words that you wrote to the family of Cpl. Roberto Abad I,m his fiance and I really want you to know that for me he still here because before he left to Iraq I got pregnant.He new that I was pregnant one week before he got killed he couldn't wait to come back to be with this new beautiful bless that God give us for the rest of our lives. Also I would like to tell you that his family and relatives have you family in our prayers. Thank you again and remember even we don't know each other we became family of two fallen heroes, and again thank you for all your support for our family. Sincerly; Tania Abad and Robert Isaac Abad Jr."
Tania Abad of Bell Gardens CA

"To the family of Lance Cpl. Jason Charles Redifer,
I'm so sorry. Words can't express how sorry I am feeling about your loss. If I ever go to Arlington, I'll make sure to visit Jason's headstone. I just found out that he was born on the same day and on the same year as me which left me at a loss of words. When I will turn 20 this year, Jason will be in my thoughts and prayers as well as his family and friends. I will celebrate his birthday as well. He isn't and won't be forgotten. God Bless you all. Thank you again. Semper Fidelis."
Christine B.

"My Dear, Thoughtful Nephew, Jason,
I know that you got my message last Thursday because for the first time ever there were buttercups in my yard two days before Mother's Day. Now, wherever I have to be there are buttercups letting me know you care and are watching over me. I am taking your wonderful Mom some buttercups that have been planted just for her. I hope you have lots of them in Heaven. This Sunday will be Courtland's first birthday without you. Maybe you can let him know you are with him in spirit and in his heart. Today is Scott,s birthday. I love you.

Aunt Rita"
Rita Lockridge

"My Dearest Nephew, Jason,
I miss you more everyday. It doesn't get easier. I am very proud of you as I have been since the day you were born. You gave me so much happiness in your short 19 years. I have so many wonderful memories that I will always cherish. We had so many good times. Now, you are my guardian angel and only you and I share that secret. Thanks for the pennies. I am saving them. I never saw you that you didn't have a smile on your face. I have 30 albums of,as you called them, Hallmark moments of you and your brothers. I cherish each picture and remember the moment. You know that Father Fox was sent there to keep an eye on you. Always remember how much I loved you and always will. Life will never be the same without you. I'm grateful for the time I had with you. Goodbye my special cowboy who carried me off the mountain. You were always there for me. You are my hero. Don't forget to keep an eye on me. I LOVE YOU.

Aunt Rita"
Rita Lockridge

"Aunt Rita Lockridge"
Rita Lockridge

"Dear Rhonda and Family of Jason. I was the Sailor who spoke with you after the ceremony today. I was so touched by what you said to me that I had to find out more about Jason. I have read so many wonderful stories about him and they were told by you and his friends. It is obvious from the stories that he didn't lack love from you or his family and in return he gave you love and respect.
I know that I'm rambling on, but I just wanted to make sure that you knew you touched my heart today. Thank You!!"
Connie of Jacksonville NC

"Dearest Rhonda, you already know how we feel about Jason and his family. But I feel you can't be told enough. Not a day goes by that I do not think about all of you. Jason's picture sits along side Lauren and Katie. Lauren considered Jason to be her brother and I would have taken him as a son anyday. We miss him too, but as much as my heart aches for him and you all, and as much as it aches for Lauren's loss of a beloved friend, at the same time, we still smile and laugh at things Jason said, sang or did. I was just looking through this website and found this page. What another wonderful tribute to Jason. He would be amazed, actually Lauren said he truly is!
Your cowboy, who has become everyone's cowboy and hero, is forever in our hearts as your family will be. We love you all and can't wait to visit again.
Rhonda, Jason knew how lucky he was to have you as his mom, and he knew he was loved. I too loved him, no more than I was around him, but that was Jason. Until we talk..your North Carolina family !!!!"
Menzette Chadwick of Beaufort, North Carolina

"Jason.. if you only knew how many people you touched. Ha.. then again I bet you do. You are deffinitly one cowboy that will never be forgotten. Thank you for everything.. the laughs and talks.. there aren't words out there to describe you. Thank you for befriending a new comer.."
Liz of Louisa, Virginia

"To Jason's Mom Rhonda, and to his entire family and friends,

I never knew your son, brother, nephew, or friend Jason, but I do know that he is and will always be a part of our Marine Family.

Please know that Jason walked through the gates of heaven the day he left us, only to see those who had gone before him. My brother Ryan was there waiting for him at attention and saluting only to say, "Well done my friend, well done! Our fight in this war is over, we have won the battle."

May your days ahead be filled with joyeous memories of Jason, and may god bless you as he has blessed our family."
Alan Howard - Brother of SSgt John Ryan Howard-USMC Killed in Action 8-11-04, Operation Iraqi Freedom of Covington, Va

"I knew jason for just 6 months but in that time I got to know the wonderfull guy he was he will always be remembered as a true hero to me. my prayres go to his family and to all that knew him he was a wonderfull person and made a diffrence every where he was. he will be missed by all. his friend Daizy"
Daizy of tennessee USA

"To the family and friends of Lance Corporal Jason C. Redifer,

Those we hold most dear, never truly leave us. May you find comfort in love's everlasting connection.

In the Support section of this web site you will find links to many groups that support you at this crucial time. The Marine Comfort Quilt group would be honored to send a quilt to the next of kin. There are many, loving and caring Americans from all over the United States that will never forget the sacrifice that your loved one has made for our Freedom. Please use our link and register so we can send you our "Love Stitched Together."

Proud Marine Mom and Proud Member of Marine Comfort Quilts"
Sandra Moudy of Placentia, Ca USA

"My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Jason Redifer. I lost my son on January 26, 2005 in Iraq. Those that have laid down their lives are the true heroes. May God bless you and comfort you during this time."
Helen Gilbert of Dayton, Ohio

"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness, and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief. Your HERO, Jason, will be remembered by name. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you ALWAYS. Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana "

"Thank you Jason Redifer, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios

"To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Jason Redifer:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Jason for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada

"To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Jason Redifer:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Jason, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia

Honor them by remembering... Freedom - is their gift to us But his soul goes marching on