19, of West Milford, New Jersey.
Parrello died as result of hostile action in Al Anbar Province, Iraq. He was assigned to Small Craft Company, Headquarters Battalion, 2nd Marine Division, II Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Lejeune, North Carolina. Died on January 1, 2005.
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"Thinking of you today. Happy Veterans Day! Shane took me to D.C. this summer where I finally was able to meet your mom and dad. We had a nice lunch together. I hope to one day meet you on the other side.
Sincerely;
LeAnn ( sister of Shane Olden, they served together with Small Craft Company)"
Leann of Winchester,VA
"To the family of:Brian P.Parrello
I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. My heart cries out for you in your grief and you have my thoughts and prayers. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Prayerfully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to, please call or write my pastor: Rev. John Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd., Covington, GA 30016. (770)787-1015.
Your friend in Jesus Christ, Polly Ballew Covington,Ga""
"Brian,
was going through my old playlist of music when we were in SOI training together and stumbled upon the song "stories" by Trapt and remember how much you had told me you loved that song. I listened to it once and was instantly hooked. Now every time it comes on you are the first thought in my head brother. Semper Fi miss ya"
Jeff Maniscalco of Boston, Ma
"Brian,
Its Sept 23, 2010, and something came over me, to look you up on the internet, All these years and I still think about you. I know I was not as close to you as your peers, but I just wanted you know that you were in my thoughts today, and will be everyday until we meet at the Pearly Gates. We named a classroom after you at the Riverine Training Center for the Navy, every day warriors who will walk down the path that you did, see your picture and read about the sacrifice that you and your family paid for our great nation.
Semper Fi Brother, Until that day
SSGT Joshua Iversen"
Joshua Iversen
"I cant describe how much I miss you every single day. Even though your gone, we will always be rackmates. I cant wait until my boys are old enough to tell them about you, and 4th platoon,and the kind of Marine you were. Love you bro. Semper Fi"
Mike Fol of Jacksonville, NC
"I was proud and honored and grateful for my children to share his courageous memory and sacrifice during a school project in patriotism. My husband and I also have shared all of this information at work and w/many members of the armed forces. Thank you is not enough, Brian. All our love. Paul, Korinne, Matthew, Olivia and Bethany Ross"
Korinne Ross of Wilmington, DE
"My brother, Richard Rupert was with Brian over seas and on that new years. I know that he took the loss very hard. I actually was just on his facebook and saw a picture with Brian in it. My parents say they think we have met Brian, but if we did, I was little and can't remember too much. I've heard many many great things about him and even I, who did not know him, think about him all the time. Brian was a true hero and I thank him for his sacrifice. All four of my brothers are Marines, and one day I hope to follow the family tradition. Thank you Brian. Semper Fi."
Kasey Welsh of Bellmawr, NJ
"Parello...I haven't seen these memorials and testimonials dedicated to you until today (8/10/2009) but there isn't a single day (if not minute)that goes by that I don't think about that day. I'll never forget all the crap you gave Olden and what a funny happy person you were. I'll also never forget holding your hand that day telling you everything would be ok...I have faith that you are happier than any one here on earth can possibly understand and that is the only reason I can go on. You will never be forgotten, you will always be in my heart and mind and my son (that's right I have a son now) will know all about you and your sacrafice. I love and miss you, Sgt. Kevin S. Powell"
Kevin Powell of Wilmington, NC
"December 29, 2008
To the family of Lance Cpl. Brian P. Parrello:
Brian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV
"Brother,
It's that time of year and it feels like it was just yesterday. There's a few things that are going on with my life that i am having to make hard decisions for. I have you in mind when i make those decision because i know you would want me to do the right thing. Even though it hurts.
I spoke with a Richard Lowry about a book of small craft. I told him about you. I beleive that it is going to be the untold story. I read his first book and it was about my old company of 1/2 and Major was in it as well. I know your family will be proud. God Bless you and Thank You for allowing me to see another New Years. Love ya, Brothers to the Bone. Always Remember, Never Forget."
Doc of Corpus Christi, TX
"The pain is never going to go away. I was only 9, but I put my hand on his chest, at his wake, hoping to leave a handprint on his heart so that he wouldn't forget me . Losing Brian was like losing my big brother. I hate knowing that he can't be with us for Christmas. RIP, my cousin, my friend, my hero, and merry Christmas in Heaven"
Kaitlin Reich of Hewitt, NJ
"Brian, not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I am out of the Marines now and you should be too. I often think about how things would be if you were still here. I'm sure we would still be best friends and you would be coming down to Philly to visit me. I will be in West Milford on January 1st, I can't wait to see you. You are missed so much. I love you!"
Jonathan Snow of Philadelphia
"People say time heals all. I diaagree, Time has moved on but not for me. I have not written any memories because the pain is still great. I write this with tears in my eyes and sadness in my heart. The holidays are approaching and the memory of the Christmas ( when you were small) I gave you a present that was full of coal, the look on your face and the pictures we took say it all. I look in my kids eyes and watch the way they play sports and see you. Michael wears you number in Hockey and Joanna wears it in soccer.
Your family and friends miss you dearly I thank god for the memories of watching you grow up to become a man and the great times we had together. Till we meet again rest well."
Jim Breen of Hazlet NJ
"My condolences on your great loss. I am one that goes to the freedom run in honor of our fallen heroes. I received Brian P. Parrello's dog tags in memory of him. They are not the originals but if anyone from the family would like them I would be glad to send them to you. God Bless you all. You can contact me at gmabetts-3@comcast.net"
Betty Beckley of Burbank, Illinois
"To the family of Brian Parrello: I know this loss way to well. I lost my brother, Cpl. Ron Payne (22nd MEU/2nd LAR) May 7th 2004 in Afghanistan. Doc Rubio was a friend of his and while I have never met Brian I have heard amazing things of him. I have family in West Milford, Clifton and Patterson NJ and find it so ironic that while so far away the loss is always connected and close to home. I pray that Peace wraps its arms around you and holds you tight . . for this is a long journey and one that should be done with lots of love and support. If there is anything I or my family can do please contact us. Till Then. . ."
Rachel (raerie81@gmail.com) of winter haven,fl
"Brian,
It's been 2 years since we lost you, and tears still fall and our hearts are still heavy with pain. We miss you so much, but now at least we can laugh alittle about the funny memories we have of you.
Forever in my heart
Aunt Trisha"
"Brian we are remembering you today. You really are a hero and are missed by all who knew you. RIP"
Travis and Sarah McRae of Jacksonville, NC
"Brain,
There isn't a Day or Night that I don't think or dream about that dreadful New Year's morning. But when i found myself feeling alone and scared. I stop and think about the time in Camp Al Ashad in the exchange, just before Christmas. I was trying to buy a christmas gift for my two sons and was short $20.00. I had asked around but no one was able to lean it to be. But as i was walking out of the bld. You had came up to me and said," Marry Christmas Doc." and handed me a twenty dollar bill. I will never forget that day. Then I realized how proud your Mother and Father and the rest of your family most be of you. I whip the tears from my face and get myself up off the floor and tell myself, Doc get it together and move forward. That is what you would tell me. But sometimes i can hear it. Brother, I only Pray that i live life to your happiness. And i won't let this bet me down. Thank you Bro, for Saving my Life. Your memories will always live on."
Doc Rubio of Corpus Christi, TX
"Brian,
I read about the firefight that you and your buddies were in in the Marine Times and how Doc Rubio tried to save your life after you were hit by that bomb blast. I would like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country. And to your family, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.
Semper Fi Devil Dog!"
"TO MY DEAREST NEPHEW BRAIN I ONLY MET YOU ONCE DUE TO FAMILY PROBLEMS WE WENT
OUR WAY.
I HAVE JUST FOUND OUT THE NEWS WHICH HAS SHOCK MY SYSTEM, A MESSAGE TO ALL THE PARRELLO FAMILY THANK YOU PASSING THE MESSAGE HOWEVER I SEND YOU MY BLESSING TO THE FAMILY. I WISH YOU MY DEAREST NEPHEW I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL AND NOW YOU ARE IN HEAVEN WITH GOD AND HIS ARCHANGELS. YOU ARE LIKE YOUR UNCLE TONY PARRELLO WHO IS YOUR UNCLE, MY BROTHER TONY PARRELLO. HE ALSO DIED AS A HERO IN THE VIETMAN WAR 1968 HE HAS SAVED MANY AMERICANS AND AUSTRALIAN.
HE DRESS THEM AS OLD LADIES TO GET THEM
ACROSS THE BORDER TO THE RED CROSS.
WHEN HE CAME BACK THE VIETCON WAS WAITING FOR HIM HE DIED AS HERO
HE RECIEVE THE SILVER STAR FROM AMERICA, AND THE SILVER MEDAL HERE IN AUSTRALIA HE WAS A WARRENT OFFICE OF THE AUSTRALIAN ARMY. YOU ARE LIKE HIM. YOUR UNCLE, YOU BOTH SHARE THE SAME THING AND THAT IS TO PROTECT OUR COUNTRY. AND MANY INNOCENT SOLDIERS
HAS DIED WITH HONOUR TO PROTECT US. THEY ARE OUR HEROS BRAIN MY DEAREST I LOVE YOU VERY DEARLY AND THIS NEWS WHICH I HAVE JUST RECEIVE HAS WEEK MY LEGS I AM NOT A YOUNG WOMAN ANYMORE.
MAY THE ARCHANGELS PROTECT YOU AND OUR MEN WHO LOST THEIR LIFE.
GOD BLESS S.PARRELLO YOUR UNTIE FROM AUSTRALIA"
S PARRELLO of AUSTRALIA
"My name is Fernando G Parrello, I live in Cordoba Argentina, but I lived for 15 years in Houston Texas, My grandfather was born in Reggio di Calabria, I just wanted to leave a message in memory of Brian , because I deeply support the American military , and also because I was in the US Army.
my e-mail is parrello@hotmail.com"
Fernando G Parrello of Argentina
"To Brian's family,
There isn't a day that goes by that he is not thought about or spoken about by the Small Craft Marines. He is missed, and he is a true hero."
Travis and Sarah McRae of Jacksonville, NC
"I'll never forget you. I'm ashamed it's taken me this long to admit it, but i'm sure you understand. You always did. Love you brother. . . .as soon as i get there first rounds on me."
"RIP Brian, I love and miss you more than you will ever know. You did something that many of us could never do. You are the bravest kid I know, I love you. RIP Forever Rallo."
Geoff Kilian of Pickerington, OH (but West Milford, NJ is where my real home is)
"Corporal Parrello, goodbye soldier and thank you. You are my hero."
Bill of Houston, Texas
"Parello family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. I have read about Brian in The Record. I wanted to find a way to personally let you know how sorry I am that you lost your son/brother.I am grateful for this opportunity. He has been in my prayers, you have been in my prayers. He was mentioned in our town's Memorial day service (Ridgewood) by our local priest.
Please know that his sacrifice, and yours, will never be forgotten.
Semper Fi,"
Proud Marine Mom of Ridgewood, NJ
"Hey Brian,
man i wish you could have come to UC Davis....your the best."
Kevin Wynne of Davis, California
"To LCpl Brian P. Parrello's Family:
I am very grateful that your son gave his life for our country. I am one of Brian's friends from recruiting station Bloomingdale. I knew Brian well and he was an outstanding Marine. He will never be forgotten."
PFC Diorio of 2nd MP Battalion, Camp Lejeune, NC
"THIS IS FOR ANOTHONY & MATT. I AM TRULEY GREATFUL FOR THE GOURAGE THAT YOUR BROTHER HAS SHOWED.EVERYTHING YOU DO & ANYWHER YOU GO YOUR BROTHER WILL BE WITH YOU 100%.EVEN THOUGH I DIDNT KNOW HIM THAT WELL, HE WILL BE IN MY HEART & NEVER FORGOTTEN FOR WHAT HE DID."
KRISTEN V.H of WEST MILFORD
"to the parents of brian, i knew brian very well we were in delta company together on parris island, and together again in alpha company 1st plt at itb. one thing remained the same he was a good soul and a great friend.he will be missed dearly. to brian, i miss you man and i hate that this happend to you and i will never forget all the sundays you cut my hair for me and all the adventurous times we had together in the woods of North Carolina at itb. you will be missed my friend and i will see you again.
-Browne"
LCpl Ernest C Browne IV of Kabul, Afgahnistan
"Im 73 years old, My family owned a home on McDonalds Beach 40 years ago. It like losing a close relative. My heart goes out to you. Harvey Easton of DeHart ave. I will Pray for him."
Harvey Easton of Port Saint Lucie, Florida
"There is so much that i could say about brian. He was the most dedicated person i had met in my whole life. He always knew that he would become a marine. If only everyone could be like him. Yet, a great hero like Brian will never be lost, for a place in our hearts will always be put aside for him. After Brian gave his life for us, it is the least we can do. People say that time fixes everything. So now it may seem like we will shead tears forever,But think what Brian would want us to do. Thankyou Brian P. Parrello, for giving your life. It means so much to everyone."
Laura Black of Hewitt N.J
"Although I did not know you as much as some of my friends here in West Milford we all remember you and will never forget! Your friends back here and me-we all miss you very much but we know you died fighting for our country and fofulling your dream!"
Luke Slott of Hewitt,West Milford,NJ
"BRIAN
THEY SAY THE PAIN WILL LESSEN AND THE TEARS WILL STOP FALLING, BUT NOT A DAY GOES BY WITHOUT THE ACHE IN MY HEART OR A TEAR IN MY EYE. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOU SO MUCH.
WE WILL SHARE OUR MEMORIES OF YOU WITH WILLIAM WHO IS TO YOUNG TO REMEMBER YOU. WE WILL SHARE BABY MEMORIES,CHILDHOOD MEMORIES, HIGH SCHOOL MEMORIES, MARINE MEMORIES AND MOST
OF ALL HERO MEMORIES. YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN OUR HEARTS
YOU SERVED YOUR TIME IN HELL BRIAN, SO NOW REST IN PEACE.
WE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR MOM,DAD, AND BROTHERS
AUNT TRISHA AND UNCLE BILL.
TO SHIRL AND NINO,
I WISH WITH ALL OF MY HEART I COULD TAKE AWAY YOUR PAIN AND GIVE YOU BACK YOUR SON BUT I CAN'T.
YOU RAISED 3 BEAUTIFUL SONS,EACH FOLLOWING THEIR OWN DREAMS, BRIAN'S WAS
TO BE A MARINE AND TO DEFEND US. HE DIED DOING WHAT HE WANTED TO DO.
HAVE PEACE IN KNOWING THAT BRIAN IS LOOKING DOWN UPON US AND KEEPING US SAFE.
WE LOVE YOU
TRISHA,BILL KAITLIN AND WILL
TO MATT AND ANTHONY,
THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING SO STRONG FOR YOUR PARENTS. THEY WOULD HAVE NEVER GOTTEN THROUGH THIS WITHOUT YOU.
BUT DON'T BE SO STRONG THAT YOU WON'T COME TO US IF YOU NEED US.
WE ARE AND WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU BOTH
LOVE YA.
AUNT TRISHA AND UNCLE BILL"
TRISHA REICH of HEWITT NJ USA!
"Brian,thank you for your courage,you are a hero."
A Grateful American of New Jersey
"Brian was laid to rest in his home-town on Saturday, January 8th. We will be forever grateful to his platoon, who also risked their lives that day, and who were with Brian at the time of his untimely death. I pray that Brian may finally know peace, that our family finds the strength to endure the pain left by Brian's absence, and that marines of the Small Craft Company of the Second Marine Division's II Marine Expeditionary Force are returned home to their families safely and as quickly as possible. We love and miss you Brian, our lives will never be the same."
Dina Parrello of Middletown, NJ
"I was lucky enough to serve together with Brian at Small Craft Company. I honestly can't remember any time we crossed paths that he wasn't doing something that showed everyone around him that he was an outstanding young man and a damn good Marine.
To his family and friends in Milford: I know that nothing will ever make up for his loss. but I can tell you honestly that he died doing what he loved, surrounded by Marines who genuinely cared for him as one of their own. He was part of the finest, closest group of Marines I've ever seen in my life. I'd like you give you my utmost sympathy for your loss, and also my deepest respect and thanks for giving us Brian, who will always be remembered as a loyal and dedicated Marine.
God bless you, and Semper Fi."
SGT Jared Dugger of Camp Lejeune, NC
"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness, and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief. Your HERO, Brian, will be remembered by name. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you ALWAYS. Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana "
"To Shirley & Family,
May God continue to give you & your love ones comfort during this time. Brain was a real hero; now he's your angel too."
dina c. of fair lawn, nj
"Brian Parrello was one of my two best friends. I can't describe the pain that I felt when I heard about this tragedy. A football teammate and best friend. This is a tragic loss for his family as well as myself. You were like my little brother Brian. I love you with all of my heart and I'll continue to support your parents and brothers through all of this until we see you again."
shane sharpley of west milford, NJ
"To the family and friends of Brian P. Parrello
Although I did not know Brian personally, I would like to thank him most sincerely for his brave sacrifice. May you find comfort in the times ahead, knowing that Brian gave his life for the freedom of others, the most noble cause of all.
Respectully yours"
A grateful New Zealander of Auckland, New Zealand
"To the family and friends of Lance Corporal Brian P. Parrello,
Those we hold most dear, never truly leave us. May you find comfort in love's everlasting connection.
In the Support section of this web site you will find links to many groups that support you at this crucial time. The Marine Comfort Quilt group would be honored to send a quilt to the next of kin. There are many, loving and caring Americans from all over the United States that will never forget the sacrifice that your loved one has made for our Freedom. Please use our link and register so we can send you our "Love Stitched Together."
Proud Marine Mom and Proud Member of Marine Comfort Quilts"
Sandra Moudy of Placentia, Ca USA
"To the family and friends of Brian, He was a hero and will never be forgotten. Our family shares in your sorrow. We lost my brother SPC Shawn Davies in July, 2004. May God be with you and keep Brian for you to meet again."
Toni Peters (toniannp@sbcglobal.net) of Concord, OH
"God be with you and your family. I cry with you and for your family wishing you didnt have to go through this pain and praying it wouldnt happen again. Your son was a true hero and I thank God that we have so many brave men and woman willing to protect our country. Thank you for raising such a caring man to do such a thing..Thank you and God bless your family.God rest Brian's soul."
Betty Lewis Kendrick of Chesapeake, Va
"To Brian's Family:
There are no words to express the sorrow we feel for your loss. May God bless you and help you through this time."
Dan and Meg Manninen of San Antonio, Texas
"God Bless you Brian for defending us and taking the fight to those cowards who wish us harm. My family is deeply grateful to you and pray the God grants your loved ones comfort at this time. You are our hero and will be remembered each day we raise our flag. Semper Fi devil dog."
The Shaw family of Pasadena, Maryland
"May God bless you and keep you. My prayers are with your family. Thank you for my freedom and your willingness to fight for that freedom."
Candy of Poynette, WI
"Thank you Brian Parrello, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios
"To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Brian Parrello:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Brian for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada
"To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Brian Parrello:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Brian, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia