Fallen Heroes of Operation Iraqi Freedom

"Jeffrey was my brother-in-law—my sister Mary’s husband—and I was 5 years old when he passed. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve felt this pull to understand more about who he was. It has been nearly 20 years since he passed, and I still think about him often. Growing up, I always was very curious about him and wanted to know more, and it took 20 years for me to work up the courage to finally ask questions. I’m finally starting to understand not only who he was as a soldier but also as a person in my life.
I am fortunate enough to share a small memory I have of him from when I was about 4. I’m not sure why this memory has stuck with me while others haven’t.
It was probably about midday, and I was digging through my toys, excited to show him my things. Of course, this is a big deal to a 4-year-old! He was sitting on the couch in the living room, and I remember taking out an empty bubble container and probably being disappointed that it was empty, and without hesitation he went to the kitchen and, using dish soap, made me bubbles.
I’m saddened that I don’t have a lot of memories to share, but what I do know is how he made that little 4-year-old feel, and that’s a feeling I’ve cherished to this day. In those moments, he was attentive, present, and kind, and that’s the way I remember him. When I think about this memory, I am only able to replay it in my mind, but I don’t remember how his voice sounded. When I really think about it, I imagine him having a soft-spoken voice, and after reading some of these stories, I feel validated because that’s how others describe him.
In 2006, when he passed, I actually don’t recall a lot. I remember staying back home with my grandpa while my sister and parents traveled to American Samoa for his funeral. I don’t remember how I found out or how I reacted, but I was probably a very confused 5-year-old who missed her parents while they were away. I do remember them returning with snacks and an outfit for me. It was purple shorts and a shirt and had geometric designs on it.
It wasn’t until recently, through my family’s stories, other stories I have come across online, and research, that I finally understand the depth of everything. I learned about his role in the Army and how much responsibility he carried as a Staff Sergeant. That alone tells me his values and more about the kind of person he was. He was a leader, had a lot of responsibility, and probably took protecting others seriously. I think that’s pretty cool, and these are things I value now. I’ve realized that there is so much more to learn about him. My memories of him have not become more important, because they always were, but now I understand them differently as a now-adult reflecting on them. I feel like I am starting to now connect two separate versions of him—the one I remember and the one I am now learning about.
He still often shows up in conversations in my family, whether someone is reminded by a song that plays on the radio or recalling stories of him. One thing about me is that, growing up, my favorite food was shrimp. What a strange kid I was! Everyone knew this about me. I remember Mary telling me about how Jeffrey would eat the shrimp whole, and I probably thought that was so silly! But now, every time I find myself eating shrimp, I think of him.
Even though I was only 5 when he passed, remembering still brings fondness and wonder. From being a little 4-year-old excited about bubbles to an adult learning about his courage and character, he still continues to leave a mark on my life. I’ll forever cherish the ways he showed up, big and small, and the memories that keep him with us even now."
Samantha of Iowa

"In loving memory of SSG Jeffrey Loa. We all miss your WONDERFUL personality. You were the leader I tried to be. I will always remember you as the great person you are. My condolences go to his family and friends as another Memorial day approaches that I reflect on One of my heros."
Sgt Adam Fuller of Lake Elsinore CA USA

"SSG Loa you where a mentor to me and a person I held high regards to. I thrive to be a Soldier you would of been proud of. I will never forget you"
SGT Wilcox Robert S of FT Benning GA

"To the family of:Jeffrey S. Loa
I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. My heart cries out for you in your grief and you have my thoughts and prayers. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Prayerfully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to, please call or write my pastor: Rev. John Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd., Covington, GA 30016. (770)787-1015.
Your friend in Jesus Christ, Polly Ballew Covington,Ga""

"It still hurts to this day when I think of you. I will always remember your big smile and warm personality. You will never be forgotten."
SGT Ronald Austin of Fort Bragg NC

"SSGT Loa was a great and honorable man, he was a basic training insert when i first met him. he was always motivating us on runs. i met him again at the rock. i always had lot of respect for him and admired him very much."
Patel of carrboro, NC

"”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to the hero’s Mother, Father and/or spouse. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Almost 2,150 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
This is a gift! We have wonderful sponsors who help with the costs, and want you know that everyone here at Project Compassion does and will always CARE.
Contact us directly at Projectcompassion@manti.com or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Projectcompassion@manti.com
www.heropaintings.com"
Project compassion - Kenna of Manti, Utah USA

"Missing you terrible. Picturing your smile makes me smile. I take it as a sign from you when our songs come on the radio."
the wife of USA

"July 3, 2008
To the family of Staff Sgt. Jeffrey S. Loa:
Jeffrey gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV

"I had the great pleasure in knowing Jeff. He always had a way of making people laugh. Even now with the memories we carry with us he seems to make us all smile!! My husband was stationed with him and he feels fortunate to have known him! He is truely missed but his memory will live on forever!"
Brandee Galvan and Sgt. Joe Galvan and family of Ft. Riley, KS

"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness,
and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief.
Our nations HERO, Jeffrey will be remembered by name.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pat & Sandi Breckenridge / Montana
May we always remember: FREEDOM ISN'T FREE! "

"Jeffrey,
I would like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

"Vincere Vel Mori"
(To Conquer Or Die)35th Armor Motto"

"Thank you Jeffrey Loa, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios

"To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jeffrey Loa:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Jeffrey for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada

"To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jeffrey Loa:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Jeffrey, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia