
22, of Middletown, New York.
Medina was traveling in a convoy when it struck an improvised explosive device in Baghdad, Iraq. He was assigned to 4th Battalion, 1st Field Artillery Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Armored Division, Fort Riley, Kansas. Died on November 14, 2003.
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"Wow! I never like talking about that morning in our convoy and the ladt words you said to me. I'm so proud of you and you have only given me more inspiration to take car of my Soldiers, Always. I often think of you and why it was not me instead of you. I will always carry you in my thoughts and heart. Take care. Till we meet again."
Antonio Rico of FT Campbell, ky
"Happy Valentine's Day Irv!!
I love you and miss you!"
Jenny Medina-Celestin of Arlington, VA
"Happy New Year Irv!! I love you!! Miss you!!"
Jenny Medina-Celestin of Arlington, VA
"I love you!!"
Jenny Medina-Celestin of Arlington, VA
"Just dropping by to wish you and you family a Happy Holiday Season. Merry Christmas Buddy. Te Amo..always in my heart."
April LaBagh of St. Petersburg, FL
"11-26-09
Happy Thanksgiving Irv!!
I miss you very much. I hope that you, Phil and Danny are celebrating this day in heaven. Give them a big hug for me. I love you little bro.
Nunca te olvidare!"
Jenny Medina-Celestin, A Loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"11-14-09
Irv,
I can't believe that it's been six years since we got the horrible news. I still remember every second of that conversation. I miss you more than words can ever explanined. I love you little brother, you were always such a positive person and I wish that you were here to guide me through this rough time. I know that one day we will reunite. I pray that you are resting in peace, please give Phil my love and watch over him for me.
I love you!"
Jenny Medina-Celestin, A Loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"Just stoping by to say Happy Veterans Day! You gave the most ultimate sacrafice and you will never be forgotten for it! I still can't believe Sat will be 6yrs that you have been gone. I hope you are enjoyng Heaven & I will see you again one day there! You are always & forever will be my hero!!
Te Amo"
April LaBagh of St. Petersburg, FL
"Hey Irving, just thought I would come by & say hi. It's still so hard to believe that your gone. It's been awhile, but I don't think it's actually sunk in. We had some good times together. Hope heaven is treating you good. Miss You & Te Amo!"
April LaBagh of St. Pete, FL
"just thinking bout memories....R.I.P. Bro. im still around the Ft. Riley area.........We miss you. Tell Moreno I said whats up up there."
jonathan ellis of manhattan, Ks
"STOPPING BY TO SHOW YOU SOME LOVE. MISS YOU ALWAYS!"
KELLY SCHAEFER SCIALAMPO of CHARLESTON SC
"I just wanted to drop in and say hello & send some love your way. Miss you everyday! Lots of Love! XOXO"
April LaBagh of St. Petersburg, FL
"Irv,
I miss you so much, I have been through some really hard times this summer. Irv, I ask that you please take care of Phil and Danny, show them the way around. Please let Phil know that I love him with all my heart. My heart is broken into a million pieces. I would have never imagine that I would lose him too, I expected to grow old with him. I love you and miss you so much Irv."
Jenny Medina-Celestin, A loving sister of Arlington, VA
"Spc. Irving Medina,
I met you a few months before we deployed. Spc. Cordova and I sat and ate breakfast with you at the defac. My first impression of you was that you were a squared away soldier. You and I talked a few times after that while on details and whatnot, and I continued to think of you as a good man. It was an honor to have known and serve with you. Primus Aut Nullus, First or not at all my friend."
Sgt Everd Powell of Ft Stewart, Ga
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY IRV!!!
I Love You!! Can't believe it's been this long since we last celebrated your bday together. I love you and miss you so much! I know your spirit is helping me find the strength to go on without Phil. Please take care of him for me. I love you both so much!
Te recuerdo siempre!"
Jenny Medina-Celestin, A loving Sister and Wife of Arlington, VA
"Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday in Heaven! Wish we could be spending it with you. I will be by to see you next week. Te Amo!"
April of St. Pete, FL
"7/3/09
Hey Irving I found this website and wanted to leave a message. It's still so hard to believe you are gone. That our 10yr reunion is coming up and you won't be there to celebrate with us and show your smile, but you will be there in our hearts. I still cry at the thought of you being gone. I will be up in NY soon and will be by to see you.
Te Amo!! Always & Forever. You are my hero!
Jenny, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers. I hope this poem helps.
Do not Weep For Me
Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep.
I am Not There. I Do Not Sleep.
I Am A Thousand Winds That Blow.
I Am The Diamond Glint On Snow.
I Am The Sunlight On Ripened Grain.
I Am The Gentle Autumn Rain.
When You Awaken In The Morning's Hush,
I Am The Swift Uplifting Rush
Of Quiet Birds In Circled Flight.
I Am The Soft Stars That Shine At Night.
Do Not Stand At My Grave and Cry.
I Am Not There, I Did Not Die."
April LaBagh of St. Petersburg, FL
"Irv,
Please help Phil as he has joined you in Heaven. He has left me broken hearted and words can not explain the pain that I feel. I know that you and him are watching over all of us left here without your loving and caring ways. Irv, he was the one that helped me get through the pain of losing you and now he has left this earth. Although, I know he is no longer in pain it doesn't make it any easier. I miss you both so much and one day we will all be reunited but until then I ask you to please take care of him for me as he was my dearest husband."
Jenny Medina-Celestin, A Loving Sister and Wife of Arlington, VA
"Irving,
The last day I saw you will never ever leave my mind... you came to Hillside by chance when I lived there to see a friend.. we sat in your toyota talking..you told me you were going to the army.. i was kind of upset and told you you were crazy..you gave me a recruiters card with your cell number on the back.. I never got to call you and I regret it.. I miss the old memories of all of us on Main St. good times.. I miss you.. you were always a good friend...you will NEVER be forgotten.. :("
Linda R. of Middletown, NY
"Irving,
I know I do not stop by enough but I miss you still always and forever... I can not wait till the day when we can see eachother again and root the yankees on from that place above the clouds.."
your friend Kelly Schaefer Scialampo of Charleston SC
"HAPPY EASTER IRV!!!
I miss you and love you! May you be at peace in God's arms. I look forward to the day that I can see you again. I miss you so much Irv!"
Jenny Medina of A Loving Sister, Arlington, VA
"These four walls close in more everyday
And I'm dying inside
And nobody knows it but me
Like a clown I put on a show
The pain is real even if nobody knows
And I'm crying inside
And nobody knows it but me
Why didn't I say the things I needed to say
How could I let my angel get away
Now my world is a-tumblin' down
I can say it clearly but you're no where around
The nights are so lonely the days are so sad
And I just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me
How blue can I get you could ask my heart
Just like a jigsaw puzzle it's been torn all apart
A million words just couldn't say just how I feel
A million years from now you know I'll be loving you still
The nights are so lonely the days are so sad
And I just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me
The nights are so lonely
The days are so sad
I just keep thinking
About the love that we had
Nobody knows it but me
Irving, missing you more than words can say....:-("
"Hi Jenny Hope all is well with you and your family. Just checking in. antonio.norman@gmail.com"
Antonio Norman
"01-01-09
HAPPY NEW YEAR IRV!!!! I miss you so much. You will forever live in my heart. I miss getting that midnight phone call from you welcoming the new year. Te Quiero Mucho!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"12-25-08
Merry Christmas Irv,
Today I was reminiscing about our Christmas parties throughout our childhood. Do you remember staying up all night waiting to open our presents. How about playing outside with Karen, we used to have so much fun. Irv, I miss you more than words can say and as the new year approaches I can't help but to feel my heart ache since I know how much you loved bringing in the new year at Times Square. I wish that this could all be a dream but then I realize that it's real and that you will not be coming back home, but I pray that one day we will reunite in Heaven. One day we can sit and enjoy our converstaions just like old times. I love you Irv and miss you so much. You will forever live in my heart."
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"11-27-08
Happy Thanksgiving Irv!!
Today I am grateful for having had the pleasure of having you as my little brother. God gave me the opportunity to be raised along side a great human being (my brother Irv). Today I am also grateful for all the memories that you left me with. Irv, I miss you more than words can say. You will live in my heart forever. I love you so much! Thank you for the great memories. You have taught me so much during this process. Te quiero y Extrano mucho!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"November 14, 2008
To the family of Spc. Irving Medina:
Irving gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV
"11-14-08
Irv, today marks five years since our nightmare began. Your departure left an emptiness in my heart. I miss you more than words can ever explain. I sometimes find myself hoping that we can wake up from this nightmare but I realize that it's real. I wish that you were here with us, our lives will never be the same without you. Irv, I'm sorry that I could not be there to take care of you, I feel that I failed you as a big sister. How I recall our last converstation, I will forever treasure it in my heart. I pray for your brothers and sister in arms, for their safe return home.
I pray that one day we will reunite in GOD's Kingdom.
I love you little brother and miss you so much. You will live in my heart forever."
Jenny Medina, A loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"November 14, 2008
Al cielo,
le robe una estrella.
Al prado,
una rosa tan bella.
Al viento,
le pedi un momento.
contigo,
para poderte amar.
te quiero,
como nadie te quiso.
por miedo, es que no te lo digo.
Y al viento, que es mi unico amigo,
le pedi, te lo diga por mi....
te quiero, te quiero, te quiero mas no se..si puedo, si debo, por miedo, decir, que te quiero, te quiero, te quiero y
no
puedo
mas...
vivir sin ti...."
"Gone my friend yet never forgotten.You will ride with me no matter where I go."
Sid Sizemore of Abilene Kansas
"Irv,
I miss you so much!! I long to hear your voice, see your smile. Irv, a couple of days I found out that a good man, a friend died in Afghanistan (LTC JAMES WILEY). He leaves behind his lovely wife Reese, and 3 beautiful daughters. It hurts to know that he will no longer be around for his familly. He reminded me of you because while he was in Afghanistan he rediscovered himself. He wanted to help the Afghanis the same way that you did by reaching out to the children. Irv, it's hard to understand why things like this happen. Please show him around and give him a hug for me and tell him that I will pray for his family. Irv, you will always be my little brother, and I will never stop loving you, you will live in my heart forever."
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"July 14, 2008
HAPPY B-DAY IRV!!
Yet another year has gone by without your smile. Irv people always said that with time the pain would ease but it's not true, I still feel the same pain and emptiness that I felt the day you left us. The whole family has missed you dearly. Irv, like I said before the only thing that keeps us going is knowing that one day we will be reunited. I love you and Happy 27th BDAY!!"
Jenny, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"Happy birthday Irving. Hijo este dia cumplirias veintisiete anos. Y yo te extrano tanto como desde el primer dia que supe de tu partida de este mundo. Irving cuanto nos hemos perdido desde ese dia, no se hijo si algun dia podre acostumbrarme a sentirme asi tan solo y extranando tanto tu presencia. Bueno Irving deseo que donde estes si es que me puedes ver me ayudes a conseguir fuerzas para seguir adelante. Feliz cumpleanos hijo y sabes que siempre te ame y siempre te amare porque siempre viviras en mi corazon."
Jorge Medina of Middletown NY
"Hola hijo pronto sera otro cumpleanos tuyo sin que estes presente fisicamente, y eso me duele mucho, aunque espiritualmente siempre estas a mi lado. Te confieso algo Irving extrano tanto las conversaciones que teniamos, los juegos que jugabamos, las canciones que cantabamos juntos. Hijo recuerdo tambien tu forma de ver la vida siempre fuiste un ser humano muy positivo, extrano tu mano en mi hombro diciendo: Don´t worry dad everything is ok. Lo unico que me consuela hijo es saber que estas al lado de Dios y se que algun dia estaremos juntos otra vez te amo Irving y siempre viviras en mi corazon. Your Father Jorge medina"
Jorge Medina of Middletown NY USA
"July 4th 2008
HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY IRV!!
I miss you so much!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Arlington, VA
"We offer our thanks to this fallen comrade. One of our sons is currently deployed in Iraq after service earlier in Afghanistan. As we sing our patriotic songs over the 4th of July 2008 celebrations, we will be remembering this young hero. Thank you for your service and your ultimate gift to the rest of us.
Mr & Mrs Greg Beckwith"
Greg Beckwith of Winston Salem, NC
"I had so many oppertunities to talk to you and to get to know you better when I worked on your radios. I am truly sorry to this day I didn't. I Cant wait to see you on the other side."
Santiago Almendarez III of Seattle, Washington
"5/26/08
Irv, today we honor all of our heroes that have selflessly given the ultimate sacrifice for our country.
Irv, it's so hard not having you around and to keep imagining what you went through on your last day here on earth, it makes me angry to know that we (your family) couldn't hold your hand as you took your last breath. I tried to make sense of it but I just can't. I am so sorry that I wasn't there to protect you, I feel as if I failed you as your big sister. Irv, you are my hero and I love you and miss so much!! I know that you are with GOD and that gives me the strength to go on until we are reunited in GOD's Kingdom.
I LOVE YOU LIL' BROTHER."
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"Remembering the many hours we rode together and the sacrafice that you made.The blood of heroes never die!"
Sid Sizemore of Abilene Kansas
"Hello.Me and my Friend from the Family Support Group from 4-1 FA Fort Riley KS put the Memorial together for Irving.Even i never med him i felt so close to him during this time,i recordet his memorial and once the while i still watch it and it still hurts.He will be always missed."
Britta Acuna of Germany
"Hello,
I was a National Guard MP from Connecticut that was assigned to SPC. Medina's company, my platoon actually lived on the same FOB as Irving. What is even more ironic is before my platoon became MP's, we were Field Artillery for many years. Some of the younger MP's I served with actually went to basic training with Irving, we all took the loss very hard. We were all honored to attend a memorial service for Irving at the FOB that we lived in, a memory that I often think about. I for one will never forget you Spc. Irving and I am still trying to make sense of things in Iraq. I am so glad that I came upon this site and was able to write these words about a true American Hero. RIP Medina!!"
SGT. George Magrey of Voluntown Ct. USA
"Hola Irving quiero que sepas que siempre me acuerdo de ti y me acuerdo cuando jugábamos cuando éramos niños tú y tus hermanos cuando estábamos en la tienda con mi abuelita chelo y que veces cuando ya nos íbamos a muestras casas teníamos que esperar el camión en lo que lo esperábamos jugábamos a los cantantes como si fuéramos artistas nos divertíamos muchísimo
Te quiere tu prima wendy que siempre te recordara."
Wendy of Wexico
"One more thing, Irv. I became a better NCO after losing you and my relationship with you in Iraq taught me a vaulable lesson."
SGT. Williams (willie.b.williams@us.army.mil) of Illinois
"I made a promise to you that we would all make it back and that everything would be alright, but I was wrong. A piece of me died the day you left us and I will never forget you. There is not a day that passes without me thinking of our conversation when some of our comrades got injured and I tried to lift your spirits. Those words I spoke to you will haunt me for the rest of my life.
You were a great young man and soldier, and I wished it would have been me on that convoy, instead of you."
SGT. Williams of Illinois
""01-01-2008"
HAPPY NEW YEAR IRV!!
I miss you so much. I remember how much you loved celebrating New Year's Eve. Te Quiro Mucho!!!!!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"11-14-2007
Four years since we last spoke, I still pray to wake from this nightmare, but then I realize that it's real that you have gone to be with God. Irv, I miss you more than words can express, I often think about our childhood when we played jokes on mom and dad. What about when we used to play (Restaurant) when mom and dad weren't home and turn the house into a disco, and we danced and laught so hard. Those memories really help me keep going. I will never forget you, you will live in my heart until the day I die. TE QUIERO MUCHO!!"
Jenny of A Loving Sister, Clermont, FL
"Medina you were a good warrior and a solid troop. you knew no fear and I always respected that.I can still remember your first horseback ride and the fish training day.you're a good man and I'll never forget the day nov,14 at 0825.First Or Not At All."
Sid sizemore of Abilene kansas
"11-11-2007
Happy Veteran's Day!!!
Irv,
I thank you so much for your service and sacrifice to our country. I wish that you could still be here with us, but GOD knows best. I long to see your smile and hear your voice. I sometimes ask GOD to let wake from this horrible nightmare but I realize that it's reality and that the only hope I have is that one day we will reunite in Heaven's high. I miss you dearly, there are no words to describe the pain that I feel since you were laid to rest. Again thank you so much for all the wonderful memories and for being the BEST brother anyone could ever ask for. I LOVE YOU!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"Medina, I will never forget you! I remember talking to you when we were in Iraq, and I asked you how you were doing? And with a big smile you said I just can't wait to get home! That conversation and that smile will be with me for the rest of my life. I have dreams and nightmares atleast one time a week with you in them. Some are good and some are bad. I dream as if I were there when tradegy stuck. I can feel the pain. And I am terribly sorry to your family and my love goes to them. Take care!"
SGT Clough, Michael mike.clough@us.army.mil of Fort Polk (DeRidder), LA
"7/14/07
Happy Birthday Bro!
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you so damn much but I know that we will see each other again. Te Quiero!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"While I never knew Irving, I felt obligated to request his name when I ordered a KIA bracelet- also being from Orange County, NY, I'm sure we shared many of the same experiences at many of the same places over the years...I've been wearing his bracelet for 2 years now, and there isn't a day that I don't reflect on what it means....
"So That Others May Live""
2LT Rick Chersicla, IN of OCNY/Ft Benning/Ft Lewis
"irving
right now im watching the dvd of my brothers graduation into the marines while they are playing proud to be an american. all i can think of is how all of you, every man and woman serving or who has ever served in the armed forces is SO brave, courageous and wonderful people. On this day as the civilian I am, I want to give you especially, and all the fallen soldiers and currently serving soldiers all their deserved love, respect, dignity and tell you, you are truly loved and respected forever irving. miss you more than words can say.
sara"
sara of ny
"5/28/07
On this Memorial day we honor you and all of our fallen heroes, not only from OIF or OEF but from all past wars. Life is so hard without you, and the only thing that keeps me going is the faith I have that one day we will be together again. I miss you so much!!
Rest in Peace!
LOVE YOU!"
Jenny Medina of Clermont, fl
"Hey Irving. I was just thinking of you on this Memorial Day weekend. Your still thought of and missed."
SSG J. Landon Emrick of Kaneohe, HI
"Hey Irving happy new year. Sorry im late. Its been so long, I still remember New Years of 2001, the first time I really got to know you and knew you were a very special person.
From that moment on my life would never be the same. I miss you every moment of every day. You were a great man, who gave honor to his family, country, himself, and gave so much love to every person who knew you.
There could never, ever be another you. Ill miss you today, tomorrow and always. Anytime I ever listen to Mana or Luis Miguel I can not help but always think of you. I cant listen to these songs without tears coming from my eyes. In fact, Im listening to one of them right now. Ive tried to not listen to them at all, to listen to them all the time, to listen to them once in a while...
My life has changed tremendously since we first met, and since your departure from this earth.
The unbelievable thing is, no matter how my life changes, one thing is constant, and that is I will never forget you. And Ill always, even if its from time to time, continue to listen to "our songs." And the tears never stop.
And of course forever will I listen to our song, the beautiful song you sang to me... Al cielo, le pedi una estrella, al prado una rosa tan bella, al tiempo le pedi un momento, contigo para poderte amar. Te quiero, como nadie te quiso. Por miedo, es que no te lo digo. Y al viento, que es mi unico amigo, le pedi..te lo diga por mi..te quiero, te quiero, te quiero mas no se, si puedo si debo por miedo decir que te quiero, te quiero, te quiero y no puedo mas...vivir sin ti"
I could go on all day but Ill leave space for all the other hundreds, and thousands of people whose lives you touched. Te quiero mucho. You will never, ever, be forgotten.
con mucho carino,
Sara aka Sarita"
Sara of NY
"Just wanna leave my regaurds to the family of and ask that everyone still pray for all of the soldiers still in theatre and the upcoming soldiers who are coming into theatre. I went to basic training with Irving and I ask that you say a special prayer for me because im on my way to another tour in Febuary..........First or not at all........."
Jonathan Ellis SGT of Fort Riley, Kansas
"01/01/2007
HAPPY NEW YEAR IRV!!!!
I miss you sooooooo much!
I will always love you!!
One day we will celebrate New Years together again."
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"12/24/06
Irv,
I just wanted to wish you a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
You will always be in our hearts.
I LOVE YOU!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"11-14-2006
Hey Irv,
Three years ago life as I knew changed forever. You were called to Heaven, only GOD know how much you're missed by all of your family and friends and even some strangers. I miss you so very much and still can't believe that you will never walk through the door. I keep on holding to the memories that we shared. You are the best brother anyone can have. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!!"
Jenny of A Loving Sister, Clermont, FL
"Hey Brother, it seems like yesterday you were asking me why you have to train for the gunners test, your headed home soon to go to school and get married. Hard to believe it's been over two years but i know you were with us the second year and even though svc btry is gone well always carry you with us!!"
stanley spears of anthem, az, us
"I'm close to his famies as well as to all families of our camerades fallen for our freedom. A brave never dies he lives in our heart and in or sons."
Cesare Fanton CDR Italian Navy of Italy
"I came across some pictures today and was remembering back during my times in the Army. Somewhere in the midst of happy thoughts and fond memories I thought of you. Right when you came to mind I started to shed tears. It's all so vivid in my mind. Attending your service in Baghdad was a tough day. Hearing roll call and knowing you weren't there to respond was the worst. Whenever I hear the bugle my heart breaks. I decided to go online and look for a site about you. I found this one amongst others. I just want to say that you're missed. Loved. You're definitely a hero in my book."
Christine Reynolds of Kissimmee, FL
"05/29/2006
Hey Irv,
As I salute you on this Memorial Day, I also want you to know that I miss you soooooo much. It's been 2 1/2 years, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I miss you!!! I only wish that everyone would know what Memorial Day really means. I love you!!!
Rest in Peace!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"hey bro we made it back from the 2nd tour in iraq and i know you were looking down on all of us in svc brty 4-1fa and the rest of the battalion man i miss you so much so many memorys i have of us goofing off when we should have been working hahaha well take care bro i love and miss you. you are always in my heart."
sgt. moon william of svc btry 4-1fa ft. riley ks.
"01/01/2006
Happy New Year Irv,
Just wanted you to know that I thought about our Times Square experience, we had so much fun together with Ray. I wished that you were here to celebrate New Year's with us again. I love you and know that I think of you everyday.
Te Quiero Mucho!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"I came upon this website by accident and was very touched by all the messages left for this soldier and his family.
To the Medina Family: There is no greater gift to us the American People than the freedom given to us by the men and women willing to put their lives on the line. I would like to thank Irving and his Family for everything you have had to sacrifice. My Grandfather Raul Medina Sr. (MAY HE R.I.P) was a Korean War Veteran, he taught us that even though we are of Mexican descent we are first American. Proud Americans! He has always been our hero for giving us all of the rights and privelages that come with living "free" in this great nation! My family always decorates a small table during our Christmas celebration with a flag and a picture of my beloved Grandpy in his Military Uniform. We know he is there with us in spirit but setting a place for him makes us feel like he is really there with us!! Once again to the family, May God Bless you always and give you the strength to take things one day at a time, for it is never easy to lose a loved one!! Dios los bendiga siempre!
A Thankful and Proud American,"
Roxanne Medina Salcedo of Siloam Springs, Arkansas
"11/14/05
Irv,
Two years have passed since you left us broken hearted. We miss you more and more each day.
We celebrated your life this weekend with a Mass at St. John's, all of your friends came to be with us on this hard day. I told Phil how funny it was that although you are not here with us, you can still bring people together. I love you and miss you sooooo much and wish that you were here with us. I think of you everyday, I look at your picture and ask why you but then I realize that I will not know until I am reunited with you. I know that you're resting in God's arms.
REMEMBER THAT YOUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!!!!!
Siempre Te Amaremos!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"7/14/05
Irving,
How do I wish that you were here with us to celebrate your 24th birthday, I miss you more than words can say. The only thing that keeps me going is the faith in God and knowing that you're resting in his arms.
I love you and miss you very much!
I hope that you have a GREAT Birthday in Heaven. TE Quiero Mucho!!
R.I.P"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"7/14/05
HAPPY 24th BIRTHDAY!!!!!
I LOVE YOU!!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"Irving,
I came across the web site your family made for you today. Its amazing. I spent about an hour going through it. I miss you a lot. Everytime I play soccer or hear about a soldier getting killed in Iraq, you come to mind. There's got to be a soccer field in heaven, so save me a spot on your team and I'll be there before you know it.
SGT Jeremy L. Emrick formerly of C/1-4 ADA, Ft. Riley, KS"
SGT Jeremy L. Emrick of Ft. Bliss, TX
"To the family of Irving Medina, I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Hopefully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to please call or write my pastor at Gateway Community Church: Rev. John B. Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd. Covington Ga. 30016 Phone 770-787-1015. Your friend in Jesus Christ."
Polly Ballew of Covington, Ga
"5/30/05
Irv,
Today we honor you and all of our fallen brothers, although it shouldn't be just today but everyday that we remember that "Freedom isn't Free." You and many others have given the ultimate sacrifice for our country and we are forever in debt to you and all of our other fallen brothers and sisters. This weekend a few people came by the house and thank us for your service and sacrifice, it was very touching to see strangers come by and pay tribute to you. Irving you live in my heart and I miss you more than words can say. Remember that I love you and I will honor you everyday of my life. Te Quiero Mucho!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"Irving was god friend of mine. We played a lot of soccer together. We had a really good time together when we weren't at work. I have been looking for all the sites I could to leave messages at. This is the best I have found yet.
"I will never forget my fallen brothers,
For if it had been me I would hope the same?
Brothers at arms never forget!!
First or not at all!! 4-1 FA
God be with you on your long journey and I promise we will meet again."
Seth Pawli of Marshall, MO
"Your son brought great joy to our hearts as he did yours. My prayers are with you as you still mourn the loss of your son. I am in the same batallion as Medina. He will always be remembered. C 4-1 Field Artillery Fort Riley, Kansas/ Taji, Iraq OIF 1, OIF 3"
SGT. Joseph E. Lewis of Obetz, Ohio
"I was reading the article about your family and son Irving, when I was at the hairdresser. It caught my eye, because my husband's name is also Medina and he also lost his life in Iraq.
Believe me I know how much pain you feel, but I would like you to know something and I hope my thoughts help you.
I'm very selfish, when I cry for my husband's death, because I see me alone, missing him so much. Whenever my tears come out I try to see it from my husband's view. He wanted to be a soldier... He wanted to be where he was needed as a soldier... He always volunteered... When the war started he was in Alaska building roads and almost every phone call he told me he want to be in Iraq and fight with his camerads. He got his wish... And with his death he got more wishes fulfilled... he never wanted to be old (he died with 32)... he never wanted to retire... and he never wanted to be wounded or crippled that he can't do his job no more... and he wanted to be with his loving grandmother (who died in 2001)... He got all his wishes and that should make me happy, shouldn't it.
It was his choice to be a soldier and it was my choice to marry him. I'm greatfull for all the help I get from the US Army, because I don't take this for granted and will never do... Money or other material things like medals won't bring my husband back anyway.
The biggest treasure I have are my memories and they are wonderful.
Keep Irving in your memories and make him live through them, because believe me, he is with you every day as a guardian angel."
Beate Medina (wife of SSG Oscar D. Medina) of Hawaii
"To the Medina Family,
My name is Elijah Garcia and I just wanted you to know how very sorry I am about Irving. I knew Spc Medina pretty good. Me and him went to basic training together. I first heard about Irving when I was leaving Iraq a friend of mine who knew him also told me. When I found out I was completly crushed and I cried. I finnally had enough courage to locate a message board to leave a message. I pray for all of his family that he left behind. I love you all and hope that you are okay, I know that it ust be hard. I have a couple of photos of Irving from basic if you would like them please contact me at propheteng@yahoo.com. God Bless you all."
Spc Elijah Garcia of Elyria, Ohio
"3/16/05
Irv,
Two years ago, I hugged you and said to you "see you, when you get back" I never thought that day wouldn't come. Two years ago was the last time I saw your beautiful smile and heard your voice, Irv I miss you more and more each day and hope that I wake from this horrible dream. My heart aches everyday when I see your pictures and think why you? I guess I will not find out why until we meet again. I hope that you can remember me when I get to heaven. Irv, you will live in my heart forever. I miss you little bro. Te Quiero Mucho!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"To The Family of Spc Irving Medina,
First off, I would like to convey my condolences for the loss of Irving. Please know that not only is his country proud of him, but so am I. I will explain further. I am an ex-soldier, and hold each and every soldier who has fought and is fighting for us in Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as those still stateside very dear to my heart.
I heard of a website called www.herobracelets.org. This is a small advertising agency in Austin, TX who makes Memorial bracelets in honor of our fallen soldiers. They make a donation for every bracelet sold to The Intrepid Fallen Heroes Fund in New York, NY. I have been very touched by the war in Iraq, and even though I support it, I still grieve for the loss of so many men and women who have given their lives for their country and for the citizens of Iraq and Afghanistan. I am too old to go back in the Army, so I was in search of a way I could honor a soldier in a personal way. I quickly ordered one of the Memorial bracelets for myself. While you can specify the name of any fallen soldier, and from any branch of the military, my only specification was that it be a U.S.Army soldier's name on a bracelet I purchased. I got my bracelet a couple days ago, and it has Irving's name on it. I will wear this bracelet in Irving's Honor until each and every soldier comes home, and then as long as it will last. Irving and I are not related, but we have some things in common, and I would like to share those with you. I was about Irving's age when I finished my enlistment in the U.S.Army. I served with the 101st ABN, B Trp, 2/17th Cavalry, Fort Campbell,KY. I also attained the rank of Specialist 4, the same rank as Irving. Irving's family and mine are about the same size, and there is a set of twins in my family as well. Irving was about the same age as my little brother (twin to my sister) when my little brother brother passed away, after an auto accident. Irving’s twin brother, Ivan shares that same name with my Dad, a retired U.S.Army MSGT from Fort Hood, TX.
Only The Good Lord only knows why he took Irving so early, but I know that Irving did not die in vain. I have read all about Irving in letters from Family and Friends posted on Memorial websites, and I feel as though I know Irving, in a small way at least. I believe Irving is in Heaven as I type this, looking down on us all, along with my little brother and everyone who has passed before them.
I know nothing can take away the pain from the loss of a son, or brother, but please know that this ex-soldier is keeping your whole family, and Irving in my prayers, as well as each and every member of our Military. I just want you all to know that I am proud to wear this bracelet on my arm, with Irving's name on it. Irving will not be forgotten, and he is indeed a HERO!
God Bless You all!
Patrick Bickel
Huntsville, TX
Email: texxasco@cox.net"
Patrick Bickel of Huntsville,TX
"Irv,
I just wanted to wish you a Happy New Year in Heaven. Many times I feel as if you're here with us but then I am faced with reality and know that you are in heaven watching over us.
I miss you very much and love you very much."
Jenny, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"Irving,
Although this was my 2nd Christmas without you, it felt like the first. The holidays will never be the same without you, I miss you so much. I wish that you could call to say hello. Irving this year has been VERY hard, I will miss you forever. But you will always be in my heart, I will cherish our childhood memories forever. The memories that I have are what gives me strenght to go on. I love you and miss you very much!!"
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Clermont, FL
"I would like to say thank you to Irving and Ivan for serving our country. I keep your family in my prayers and though I know the pain never seems to go away, I hope that you will find comfort in knowing that Irving is in a better place now and his memory will never be forgotten. Words cannot express the way it feels to loose a brother, I just wanted to say to Ivan that I am so sorry for your lose and your brother passed as a true American Hero. God Bless you and your family."
Andre Cherry Jr. of Encinitas, CA
"To the Medina Family,
I was so saddened by the recent news of the death of your son, Irving. I went to high school with him and his twin brother, as well as my twin brother. I know the feeling of having a twin brother not being close to home. It is a terrifying experience, especially after something as terrible as this happens. Words cannot describe the pain and sorrow that I feel. I believe in the words of an old friend who told me " You don't idolize the actions of a person, you admire their character". Irving was a person who gave more to others than he did to himself. He was generous, altruistic, and out-going, teaching children how to play sports and read books. His death is a testament to his character; to give up something for the greater good of others. I only wish this world could be filled with more unsung heroes such as this young man who I will miss greatly. To the family and friends of Irving, I send you my warmest prayers and my dearest thanks for giving me the opportunity to have known such a wonderful and loving person during my youth. God bless you all and rest in peace, Irving."
Daniel Guilfoyle of Middletown, NY
"July 14, 2004
Irving,
Today as we celebrate your twins 23rd b-day please know that we are celebrating yours too. I can't explain what I am feeling today, I've always looked forward for your birthday so that I could tell you that you were getting old, and today it's so hard not to be able to call you and wish you a happy b-day. I miss you so much! Today I will let 23 balloons fly to the sky so that you can get my present, I am sorry that I can't be there for the family, I promised you that I would be there to support them on the hardest days of our lives but I hope that you know that my heart is with them. Ivan, mommy and daddy sound so sad and that hurts me so much, to know that I can't make the pain stop. I wish that I could do something to keep them from hurting.
I know that one day we will all be reunited in heaven and I hope that we can be the same family that we have been the last 23 years. Irving I am so sorry that I couldn't protect you as your big sister, I hope that you can help Ivan, mommy and daddy on this day. Sara and Frank and some of your other friends are coming over to spend some time with Ivan and the family, GOD, how I wish that I could be there with them. I love you and miss you so much, there are no words to describe the pain and emptiness that I feel inside. My heart aches on this 14th of July 2004 as for not only we celebrate yours and Ivan's b-day but today it's also 8 months since you were taken to heaven.
Irving I will never stop loving you and I will never forget you and if I ever do have kids, I will make sure that they know what a GREAT uncle you would have been. Please tell grandpa and Gery that I love them and to please give you a hug for me.
Jenny Medina
A Loving Sister"
of Coral Springs, Fl
"First I want to thank you for the wonderful website that honors all those who gave their life for our freedoms. I am Ivan Medina… A veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom and Irving was my twin brother. On behalf of my family and myself, I would like to thank everyone that is making a great effort to keep my brothers memory alive. To our community thank you for everything you guys have done for us. I was a very lucky guy for not only growing up with Irving but I had the pleasure of being not just being his brother but also being his twin. Being a twin is a gift from God that most people don’t get to share. Although there are many times you wish you were not a twin, the rewards are a lot and they are great. Irving was the defender of the family and friends. Many people got to know that he had a short fuse if you mess with his love ones. Irving was a genuine person. His laugh and smile would bring a smile on your face. His kindness would bring hope that life will bring better days. His positive attitude made people realized that no matter what happens you must look at life in a positive way. His loved for soccer made people see what dedication was about. He volunteered to teach little children soccer, so they too could see the wonderful part of the sport. Irving and I weren’t born in the United States but we grew up here in Goshen, New York and this is our home and our homeland. Irving joined the army to give something back to his homeland. Even though he wasn’t born here, he loved America like any American. Like one of his friends said at Irving’s’ Memorial Services. “Most of us did not join the army because we wanted to become killers, we joined the Army out of love, for our freedom, out love for our country and out of love for the way of life that we all enjoy.” This is very true about military. In Iraq Irving befriended many Iraqi children. The children saw a great person in my brother. My brother saw the future of Iraq in the children and knew how innocent and precious they were. Irving believed no child should live in a war zone and that they have the right to be children. The time will come and go and my brother will not be back… But he left wondering memories to all those he came in contacted with. He used to say, “Just let time do its own thing”, and “Everything will fall into place”. He wrote in many letters to friends “I am such a lucky person that I have such great family and friends.” And “I just want to look back and say yeah, I made a difference in this world.” Well Irving you made a difference and we can’t thank you enough for it. We miss you and love you always. I am thankful to God for the time I had to share with you. Like you wrote to me in letters “The house is not the same with you”; “I am proud of you and miss you.” Irving I am the proudest twin brother and I love you and will always miss you until like you said in our last conversation “until we meet again.” Thank you everyone.
Ivan E. Medina
Veteran OIF
Loving and Proud Brother."
Ivan E. Medina of Middletown NY USA
"Thank you for the great dedication of your homecoming video to my brother SPC Irving Medina. I am glad to hear that your son has arrived home safe and sound. I wish that Irving would have returned also but I know that he is with GOD in a better place. Please let your son know that my family is very thankful for all that he and his unit did for Irving. Irving is missed by so many people. Please feel free to visit the website that my boyfriend created in Irving's honor. Once again thank you for sharing your video and dedicating it my brother."
SGT Jenny Medina (A Loving Sister) of Coral Springs, FL
"My son returned from Iraq to Ft. Riley on Easter Sunday. He shared quarters with Irving and was on the convoy with him when it was hit. He and Irving were good friends and I had the great fortune to meet him on the eve of their deployment from Ft. Riley. He will always be part of my son and the sadness involved in his death. We dedicated a website on the return of the 4th Brigade to Irving Medina. God Bless his family and know that you are in our hearts and prayers. The website is www.loveourtroops.us"
Pat Bratton of Kansas City, Missouri
"My son returned from Iraq to Ft. Riley on Easter Sunday. He shared quarters with Irving and was on the convoy with him when it was hit. He and Irving were good friends and I had the great fortune to meet him on the eve of their deployment from Ft. Riley. He will always be part of my son and the sadness involved in his death. We dedicated a website on the return of the 4th Brigade to Irving Medina. God Bless his family and know that you are in our hearts and prayers. The website is www.loveourtroops.us"
Pat Bratton of Kansas City, Missouri
"To all of Irving's friends, a website has been set up in loving memory of Spc Irving Medina. The site is www.spcirvingmedina.com. Irving your memory will live on forever. Rest in Peace."
Charles Celestin of Florida
"Irving,
Today Phil finished the website he created in your honor, I am really lucky to have him around. As I read your letters over and over again, I came across one that you wrote to Phil asking him to please take care of me, I wanted to say thank you for always looking out for me. It's been over 5 months since GOD called you home, it has been the hardest 5 months of my entire life. I sit back and think about you coming home and how it's all a big mistake but then I am awaken by this nightmare that I live through everyday, everyday without your smile, without hearing your voice. I miss you more than words can say, and I am sorry for not having been there for you when you most needed me. I think about why this had to happened to you and I still can't find the answer and I guess I'll never will, I just wish that you were here with us, to brighten our lifes with your beautiful smile.
R.I.P.
MY HERO, MY GUARDIAN ANGEL."
Jenny Medina, A Loving Sister of Coral Springs, FL
"Specialist Medina, goodbye soldier and thank you. You are my hero."
Bill of Houston, Texas
"Hey Irving,
Just wanted to say that you were a great guy for the short time that I knew you. Thanks for playing pool with me:) May your memory last forever in the hearts of those who knew you, and hopefully, you rest in peace good soldier."
Matthew Atchison of Beaumont, Texas
"Irving todavia no puedo creer que esto te ahiga pasado a ti. Pensaba que estarias haciendo en Fort Riley ahora que regresaste. Cuando vi tu nombre en la pagina de Fort Riley de la gente que habia caido no podia creer que eras tu, pues en esa foto te ves totalmente diferente. Hasta ahora me resisto a creer de lo que te paso. Pero tengo que aceptarlo. Descansa en paz Irving. Fuiste un buen amigo y muy buena gente.
Irving I cant believe this happened to you. But I have to accept it. You were always a good friend and a good soldier. Rest in peace."
Manuel Bravo of Bronx, NY
"I've move to his unit right before I was ready to leave the Army. During the short time I was there i realized he was a real team player and was ready to take a fight for me.I'll never forget that. Thank you for everything"
Jephte medois of Austin, Texas
"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness, and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief. Your HERO, Irving, will be remembered by name. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you. Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana "
"OUR special chosen words since day one of finding this site last year...have always been......REST IN PEACE BRAVE SOLDIERS/MARINES/WARRIORS We love you and MAY GOD BLESS you each. Your loved ones are in a beautiful place called Heaven now....When you look up to the sky at night and see the brightest star...it's your hero..shining down on you..The Taylors United States Marine Corps, North Carolina"
"I've known, and known of Irving, for the past four years. I am his sister's, boyfriend (soon-to-be-fiance), and I already consider the Medina's, my family. I was looking so much to Irving's homecoming, which would have been only a few months from now (February). I want to say that I am so proud of Irving, for he is a better man than I could ever hope to be. He gave the ultimate sacrafice, protecting the very freedoms that we all take for granted. May God bless his soul and take him in with open arms into his kingdom. I am so Proud of you Irving, your memory will always live on forever. I wrote this poem to you, based on my conversations with Jenny.
Never Did I Imagine
Never did I Imagine,
That we wouldn't meet again,
Or that the last time we spoke,
It would be the very end.
I wrote to you in my last letter,
how proud I was of you,
Your death was so unexpected,
and the letter never made it through.
When I told you, you were my hero,
I was speaking from my heart,
You were always so close to me,
though we were thousands of miles apart.
You always knew the right words to say,
to bring a bright smile to my face,
Now I can't imagine, that every holiday,
at the table, ther'll be an empty space,
Only months were left, until the day,
that you were set to come home,
But God called you up to heaven,
for reasons, to us, unknown.
Before I close my eyes at night, I pray,
I wake from this horrible dream,
That once again, we all can be,
That dynamic, sister, and twin brother team.
We played all day, and laughed at night,
Singing silly little melodies,
For twenty-two years, you filled my life,
With, so many wonderful memories.
You touched the lives of so many,
they all came to say goodbye,
I could feel you looking down at us,
your smile, shining through the sky.
We trust in God, and know that, now,
you are in a better place,
For, you're at peace, now, in God's arms,
his Kingdom, and in his grace.
Never did I imagine,
I would visit you at your grave,
Although I'm sad, I am so proud,
of the ultimate sacrafice you gave.
You stood up tall, and were so brave,
I hear you fought so gallantly,
Your tragic death, is a constant reminder,
that freedom isn't free.
I miss you so, and can't quite find,
the words that express my sorrow,
I talk to you, and ask for strenth,
to cope with the days to follow.
Little brother, although it's hard,
I know that I must now say goodbye,
But soon oned day, I promise that,
We'll reunite in Heaven's High.
Irving, we will all miss you. We are all proud of you, and the sacrafice you gave. May God bless Jenny and the rest of your family, and give them the strength that they will need in the days and months to follow. I know that you are watching over all of us now, and I want you to know that I will watch over and look out for your family now, so you can rest in peace. Again, God Bless You, Now and Forever. Take care, my brother.
Love always,
Phil"
Charles P. Celestin of Coral Springs, FL
"Thank you Irving Medina, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios
"Irving Medina was the closest person to me outside of my immediate family for the past few years. He saw me through the good times, bad times, everything. He was such a REAL person, such a wonderful friend and boyfriend. He was the most honorable man Ive ever known in my life. He was so selfless, loving, generous, hardworking, and just a wonderful wonderful man. I could talk about him lovingly for hours and not even scratch the surface of how great of a person he was.
We were eachother's first love and this man taught me what REAL love is. I will never ever forget him and always keep his memories alive in my heart.
Thank you Irving for being such an amazing man, I will always love you and miss you forever.
I am so priveledged to have known you, Irv,and I can see how you became the man you were because you have such a great family who I love tremendously. My condolences go to the entire Medina and Polanco family, may God be with you every step of the way, each minute of each day. I love you all and God bless you."
Sarah Donofrio of Pine Bush, NY
"UN AGRADECIMIENTO A TODAS LAS PERSONAS QUE EN SU MOMENTO BRINDARON TODO SU APOYO A NUESTRA FAMILIA A MI HERMANO A ANALY A JENNY E IVAN CUANDO TUVIMOS LA DESGRACIA DE PERDER A IRVING PERO EL NO SE A IDO DE NOSOTROS PORQUE SIEMPRE ESTA PRESENTE EN NUESTROS CORAZONES TE QUEREMOS MUCHO MI NIÑO Y RECUERDA QUE SOLO TE ADELANTASTE UN POQUITO PERO ALGUN DIA NOS VOLVEREMOS AVER DIOS ESTE CONTIGO"
FAMILIA MEDINA of MEXICO CITY
"To the Medina family,
I knew the Medina twins very well. I grew up with them when they went to Goshen High School. They were the only other pair of identical twins in the school besides me and my identical twin brother. However, the Medinas were indistinguishable. I wish to change that last statement. Irving has now distinguished himself as a hero because of his courage, valor, and strength. I was honored to be his friend. I don't know what I would do if I were to lose my identical twin brother like that. My heart goes out to the Medina family, especially Ivan. I wish to end with a prayer from the 23rd Psalm, in Spanish:
"Aunque ande en la valle de sombra de muerte, no temere mal alguno, porque tu estaras conmigo, tu vara y tu cayado, me infundiran aliento." Vaya con Dios, Irving."
Matthew R. Guilfoyle of Albany, New York
"Thank you for all of your support. I am SPC Medina's sister and want to thank everyone that's kept us in their prayers. It's hard loosing a brother like Irving but I know that someday we will see each other again. Irving was proud of to serve his country. He is missed by mom, dad, twin brother , Big sister (me) and many friends."
SGT Jenny Medina of Coral Springs, Florida
"To the family and friends of Spc. Irving Medina:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Irving for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada
"To the family and friends of Spc. Irving Medina:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Irving, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia