Fallen Heroes of Operation Iraqi Freedom

"Christine,
I have been doing family research for many years and have connected my family to Michael. I would like to communicate with you or Michael's family about our history and connections. Thanks to Michael for the service to his country."
Evelyn McKinney Huffman of Roanoke, VA

"SSG Dooley... where do I start... I guess I can start off by saying not a day has gone by where I haven't thought about that horrible night. I remember it like it was yesterday... we went to far on that TCP and had to turn around. The whole convoy had to turn around which meant it shouldn't of been you that was there. On one side of the check point... there was me, Moorhead, Garcia, Thorpe, and the interpreter that almost got shot by being on the other side of the street to where we were firing. Me and the following people should of been there. Then there was you, Coates who got wounded, and that BAD A*SS Jamaican roommate of mine... Morris, who killed that coward before he could do any damage to anyone else. I remember when you first got to the platoon... I was a little of a trouble maker who got into trouble every now and then. It seemed like everybody had given up on me and just accepted the fact that I was just a bad person... until you got there!!! You had my back no matter what happened and it made me a better person now because of you. Our first conversation when you first got to Carson was " I'm your new gunner... I don't care what you did before I got here... just don't make me look bad" and from there on I promised to be a better soldier just because you were there and made everything so much easier for me. I didn't want to let you down. You have been more of an inspiration on me then you or anybody will ever know!!! You and I were supposed to have our first kid in the same week... you having a girl and me having a boy. Because you were such a great influence on my life... I named my son Michael... who was actually born premature at 3 lbs. 10 oz. on July 20, 2003. I miss the good times with you rolling around in the tank listening to Korn on the intercom and playing dominos in the down time. You will never be forgotten!!! If anybody wants to respond to this message, you can reach me at tims_placespot@yahoo.com"
Tim Langdon of Bay Area, CA.

"HEY MAN ITS SCOTT 5YEARS BRO I DIDNT WANT TO GO TO WORK TODAY BUT I HAD TO I TRIED TO DRINK IT AWAY LAST NITE BUT IT DIDNT WORK I TALKED TO CRISTINE LAST NITE SHE SOUNDS GREAT I HATE THIS TIME OF YEAR I REMEMBER WE USED TO GO TO TYBEE ISLAND IN GA AND SIT ON THE BEACH AND DRINK BEER AND CHECK OUT THE WOMAN (CRISTINE THAT WAS BEFORE YOU GUYS MET)SEEMS LIKE SO LONG AGO I REMEMBER HEARING THE NEWS ABOUT YOU AND IT KILLED ME I WAS SO MAD I HATED EVERYBODY EVEN GUYS ON MY TANK HELL MY WHOLE PLATOON I JUST WANTED TO DIE MYSELF BUT I AM SLOWLY TRYING TO GET THINGS RIGHT I HAVE A WONDERFUL WOMAN IN MY LIFE THAT UNDERSTANDS AND LISTENS TO THE ISSUES AND PROBLEMS I GO THROUGH I GET MY DAUGHTER IN A COUPLE WEEKS CANT WAIT MAN I MISS U ALOT PEOPLE WRITE THINGS ON HERE AND ALOT OF THEM DIDNT KNOW WHO AND HOW NICE OF A MAN U WERE TOMORROW I AM GOING TO LUNCH AND I WILL ORDER A BEER FOR YOU AND SIT IT NEXT TO ME AND I WONT LET ANYONE TOUCH IT I MISS U AND CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN LOVE YA SCOTT P.S. TELL GOD TO GIVE US A BREAK WITH THIS DAMN HEAT"
SCOTT TELLADO of LEVITTOWN PA

"Funny thing is on June 8th I will be closer to Micheal , I am flying to Washington state on a training mission and I usually wear his KIA braclet all day, but when we reach cruising altitude I am gonna take it off, kiss it and have a special prayer for Micheal and his wonderful family. God bless the Dooley familiy, true heroes in my book. The golf event sounds great keep me posted. Oh by the way me and the family are going to Ft Carson in July to the memorial, could you send me some info. Thanks Christine."
Rob Burton, rob.w.burton@us.army.mil

"June 8, 2008 is 5 years...such a milestone! Very bitter sweet. Five years of sadness, tears, memories and memorials. Its crazy to think that it has been this long, I still miss him everyday. Its also relief that I am made it through! Also, happy to be so far away from that horrible day he was taken. That is somewhere I would never want to go again. What hell. What horror. He may not be here but he is still part of my everyday life. He will forever be a permanent part of my life. We were together for about 2 1/2 years. And that 2 1/2 years that changed my ENTIRE LIFE. He taught me so much and gave me so much in such a short period of time. I will always miss him and love him. I just don't want to mourn him for the rest of my life. I never thought I could enjoy life without him, but I am. I had two choices...1) be miserable without him or 2) enjoy my life without him. It was never something I wanted to do, enjoy life without him, but its something I had to do. It was hard for me to accept his death. I didn't wanted to accept he was gone forever. It was really hard for me to "feel" happiness. I could laugh but I couldn't really feel the emotion of happiness, except where my daughter was concerned. I have had to work through so many challenges and trauma. The tremendous stress that has been put on me over the past 5 years has also been detrimental to my health. I completely understand how stress can really kill someone! The last 5 years have been horribly hard...but I have come so far in such a short period of time, considering. Just from knowing the level of trauma I experienced here at home, I can't imagine what our soldiers really go through over there and how they are affected. They are MY HEROES...everyone who has served our country. FREEDOM IS NOT FREE!!!!
I have always said that those 2 1/2 short years with him have been worth the pain I will feel for the rest of my life...and I truly believe that. I wouldn't have traded my time with him for the world, and I would do it all over again! He was such a blessing in my life. It was an Honor to have known him and to have been his WIFE. He picked ME! And its such an honor to have his child. She is a living monument of the love that we shared. She is the best parts of both of us, combined into one little person! She was my little angel in my darkest hours. I will forever honor his memory. I have plans to get started doing charity events/fund raisers in his honor, for wounded soldiers and children with special needs. Its been too hard, mentally, to do it before but now I feel ready. I would like to have a 5k or golf outing in his memory next year and make it an annual event possibly. I have contacted a few organizations and hopefully we can get something going soon. I would love to use his memory to help other people. I know he would love that too.
I will continue to on with my life. It hasn't been easy and sometimes it won't be easy in the future but I will persevere. I guess I made it a habit after he died...I made it a habit to go on with my life. I just kept going through the motions of life everyday. After a while I started to feel again...now I feel happiness and enjoyment again and I Love it! I don't fear as much, I don't worry as much and I can let go of bad feelings easier. That doesn't mean that I don't worry or still experience fear and all that...its just a lot less! I am training myself not to worry and fear so much. Will it work? We'll see! lol. I still cry over him/for him. Usually I'll cry in the car when a stupid sad song comes on the radio. Or sometimes I am just in the kitchen, chopping up something and "it" corners me...makes me feel sad...makes me cry. After a few or ten minutes, I pick myself and go on with what I was going. Grief is a very strange process. And the phrase "you can't understand what its like to go through something like this until you go through it yourself" is so very true.I never could have dreamed that I would have been married at 20 ( 1 week before my 21st birthday) or that I would become a mother at the age of 22. I always wanted to get married and have kids but I had no idea what God had in store for me! My mom, Shea and I will be on the beach in Florida on June 8th. At sunset I plan on standing in the sand with my mom and my daughter. I am sure there will be a few tears but there is also going to be a lot of happiness, pride and love! We will be doing something like putting notes in a bottle, sending them to sea for Micheal. And sending him balloons up to heaven too. I plan on going to the cemetery before we leave also. If you do anything on June 8th to remember/honor Micheal...I would like to hear what you did or planning on doing. Even if it is just saying a prayer for him or thinking about him. But please try to make it a happy time! He really hated when people cried! Lol. Remember something great about him, or funny....and share it if you feel comfortable doing so! On June 8th I will be reflecting back on the past 5 years. I won't only be thinking of Micheal but I will thinking of everyone who have helped me and stuck by me through everything. Thank You for continuing to HONOR AND REMEMBER OUR HERO!"
Christine Dooley of Pa

"Christine...I feel like I know you. I met Micheal's mother and step-dad last year at the First Wall of Honor Ceremony here in Richmond on the State Capitol grounds. I was on the Committee last year and met Anne and Ed when they registered their attendance. Such lovely people. They told me about you and Shea...I know you are very special...the two of you. I want you to know that I feel a great affection for Micheal, you, and Shea and I've not met you! Anne fostered that feeling in my heart...I see Micheal's photo which is the one on this website each day in our lobby downstairs. He is a wonderful person. God takes good people...he has important responsibilities and duties for them in His House. I want you to know that I am thinking of you and Shea and Micheal's special Mom and Dad. I love them for who they are, and I love you and Shea by association with them. And of course you and Shea are Micheal's immediate family.
Take good care... know that many love and think of you even though you may not know them. The Wall ceremony this year was on May 22. I believe there were more people here last year. It was still a moving service. The first year sort of gets the ball rolling.

Love to you and Shea, Christine. your message below to Micheal is beautiful and sincere."
Carolyn Blaylock of Richmond, Va.

"Micheal,
We spent the night watching home movies of you. Shea wanted to see movies of you, so we got them out. We watched for like 4 hours and before I knew it, it was almost midnight! Poor kid was exhausted but she didn't want to stop watching her Daddy Micheal! I think she is finally "getting to know you". She loves your tattoo's and asks why you never wore a shirt! lol. It was so nice, for me, to see you also. We used to have so much fun together. Life was so easy back then. You taught me so much and we got to experiance so many things in life together. Shea also really enjoyed watching the way you move and listening to your voice. I am so happy we took so many home movies...but if I would have know the future, I would have taken more! I would had the camera on you 24/7! I would have made you leave messages to Shea and things like that...it would have been awesome! But we can't change the past right? So quit looking back. Shea is going to watch more video's today! It's nice to be able to watch you and not cry the whole time! I refuse to mourn you forever, but I am sure as hell going to love you, remember you and honor you! We shared an awesome life together and I will carry that love with me for the rest of my life. Its almost the 5 year mark. You died exactly how you wanted to...quick and as a Hero. You didn't suffer and I am so thankful for that. I remember the day you left...we were with your unit...you kept telling everyone that you wanted to die quick, if you had to. I didn't understand then...I was so mad at you for talking about dying, it wasn't an option...there I was, your pregnant 22 yr old wife, seeing you off to a war and you were talking about the way you wanted to go. So, I just told you that I wanted you back...I didn't care if you could walk or wipe your own #@*...I just wanted you back. I would have taken care of you forever! I didn't want you to suffer, but I just wanted you back. But God decided to take and he took you the way you wanted, quick and fast and for that I am thankful. I didn't want you to suffer either. That was the first question I asked after i was told you were dead. I wanted to know if you went quickly. But nobody was able to answer me right away. Then I found out you did. You will forever be 23 years old. You can't get old or sick...you will forever be handsome and strong! And you will always watch over Shea and I. We love you!!!!"
Christine of Pa

"As you are remembered today I want to thank you for your sacrifice to our nation. May God bless your family and give them comfort knowing how many lives you have touched.You are loved. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. My son Rob and our family honor you."
Karen Burton of Maryland

"Micheal,
We spent the weekend in DC honoring you! It was wonderful. We met so many other family's of fallen soldiers. They have become like family members. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. We also didn't miss the memorial service (this morning) at the cemetary where you are buried. We will always HONOR YOU and Keep your spirit alive!!"
Christine, Shea, Bill, Jean and Tony of Murrysville, PA

"Well Bro its been almost 5 years since you made the ultimate sacrifice. Just the other night I was reading the book with your last letter home to Christine, it brought tears to my eyes, sometimes I wonder how I have been deployed 5 times and manage to come back home , but I realize that God needs good shepards and everything happends fo reasons we can't understand. I miss you and and I am very proud that one of my sons has your name as his middle name. You are a true hero and to Christine and Shea, may god bless you in all you do in life you both are also heros and very strong , thank you for your service. Happy Memorial Day."
Rob Burton

"Anne & Ed. I think of you so often...Your photograph from last year's Wall of Honor ceremony is on my desk. I hope you are okay.
I keep you in my prayers and hope that you are able to be with Christine and Shea. You will always be very special to me and I love you both and of course Micheal...I see him every day and he knows that you love him...I tell him so.

Love to all of you. I hope you'll let me know how you are.

Carolyn"
Blaylock of Richmond, Virginia

"Hey man its been so long. I have met a few guys here at stewart in 4-64 who know you. Its nice to be able to talk back and remember. I talk to Christine and Shea. She is a great artist...you would be proud of her. I cant wait for her to get a little older so I can tell her all about you. Thank you and just know the best of you shows in the best of us. chris747mx@yahoo.com"
Christopher Norton of Ft. Stewart Ga

"hey mike its scott i have been in touch with cristine and have gotten pics of shea she has gotten so big how time flies i got out of the army and now work for the railroad in pa it a great job its been five years and i still find it hard to know your gone i thought it would get better when i left the army but it hasnt but i manage my daughter is doing great she is five and she will know bout you and the sacrifise you made so she can grow up and be free i miss you alot and always will i found a old pantera shirt i useto were and an old pic of me and u when you lived in ga made me smile and laugh and also cry i will hold on to that till the day me and u meet again well got to go. will write again soon love ya bro"
scott tellado of levittown pa

"oh, mike, how long has it been now? nearing 5 long years since we lost you, and still not a day goes by that i dont have you in my thoughts. that fateful night has played over in my mind time and time again, wondering what could have been different, how we could have made this horrible thing not happen. its been in your memory that ive strived to continue on in serving our nation. if there had been anything we i could have done, switched spots with you, anything, i would. your wife and daughter deserved you far more. i just hope that i can go back again to continue to try and avenge you. how are always in my thoguhts..."
SSG Mike Hatch of Walter Reed Army Medical Center, A Trp, WTB

"Hey son,
It's mom. I just wanted to thank everyone for their comments about Micheal was a fine young man. I am so very proud of my son. He gave all for this country!!!!!!Son there is not a day that I do not miss you!!!! Life will never be the same without you.
Mom dreads Holidays, Birthdays Death days and some times everyday.
Your 28th Birthday has just passed and boy did that make mom feel old!!!!!I sure do miss you son::(
I received my pictures of Shea at Christmas, I look so forward to them every year.Son you would be so proud of her.She has your eyes and your and my curly hair... We got that from Gammy, Ya no!!!!This is my 2nd try today to get this out. I spent 1 hour the 1st time and with on a blink I lost it.....
I cried my eyes out through the letter and the comments that folks had left for us. When it came to the spell check poof it was gone??? So I thought I would try again, So if the words are not correct it will be sent any way cannot write what I wrote the first time but I will do my best!!!!
Micheal you would be proud of your brother he is doing great in school,driving and just talks to the girls.I put your tree up EVERY YEAR!!!!!It is so very hard to do but I do it for you...You are also honered on the Tree at the Court House Down town.The Veterans Tree here in Pulaski County. They light it every Dec.1st.I try to go but it is very hard for mom.Well son I am going to go for now. I have been on this all day trying to send a letter.
I had better get up and find some supper for Ed. Micheal he has realy up held your wishes. I am blessed to have him in my life.Son tell mama ,Teena and your Buddy Cody man in Heaven to look over us and hello!!!!
Keep sending me my signs Dragon Fly
xoxoxoxoxoxo
With all my heart and love
Mom
A GOLD STAR MOTHER
Ann Wiseman
wiseman43@verizon.net"
Ann Wiseman of Pulaski,VA 24301

"February 2, 2008
To the family of Staff Sgt. Micheal E. Dooley:
Micheal gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV

"Happy Birthday!!! You would have been 28 today! WOW...OLD MAN! We met over 7 years ago. Next month would have been 6 years of marriage. And who knows how many more kids we would have had together! How awesome. But life didn't turn out the way we wanted it to. I would rather be taking you out for your favorite meal tonight than leaving you this message. You will always be remembered and honored by Shea and I. As my life move forwards and goes on, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you! I will always love you! Happy Birthday again! We will be celebrating your life here!"
Christine and Shea of Murrysville, Pa

"Merry Christmas Daddy/Micheal!!! We hope you have a wonderful Christmas with Jesus! We are thinking of you ALWAYS! We love you and Miss you!!! Kisses and hugs from your girls!"
Christine and Shea of Pa

"I miss you bro, I hope your family has a Happy Holiday and you do also on Fiddlers Green."
Rob Burton of 84th CST Weapons of Mass Destruction Recon Team

"I think about the good times almost everyday still. Happy Holidays! Me and Julie miss you, and we are proud to have shared so many great memories with you. We wish all of Michael's family a Happy Holiday season."
Matt Worrell of Newport News, VA

"As the holidays approach I think about how you will not be with us, again... but we still hold your memory alive and love you very much! I hate not being able to enjoy life with you. But thats why you gave me your daughter to enjoy life with since you had to leave! I love you and I miss you! Happy Holidays in Heaven!"
Christine of Pittsburgh

"Michael,
I would like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country. And to your family and loved ones-especially your wife and daughter, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy. After reading all the reflections left here for you I wish that I had the honor of serving with you when I was in.

"Brave Rifles"(3rd ACR Motto)"

"Heard this song tonight...I think Tim McGraw wrote it about you. I have been missing you a lot. Wish you could come back for one day to talk to me and hold your little girl. It hurts like it did the moment I found out you weren't coming back. You were ripped away from me and your baby. I miss you and I love you...I always will.

IF YOUR READING THIS-BY TIM MCGRAW
"If you’re reading this
My momma is sitting there
Looks like I only got a one way ticket over here
I sure wish I could give you one more kiss
War was just a game we played when we were kids
Well I’m laying down my gun
I’m hanging up my boots
I’m up here with God
And we’re both watching over you

So lay me down
In that open field out on the edge of town
And know my soul
Is where my momma always prayed where it would go.
If you’re reading this I’m already home.

If you’re reading this
Half way around the world
I won’t be there to see the birth of our little girl
I hope she looks like you
I hope she fights like me
Stand up for the innocent and the weak
I’m laying down my gun
Hanging up my boots
Tell dad I don’t regret that i'd follow in his shoes

So lay me down
In that open field out on the edge of town
And know my soul is where my momma always prayed where it would go
If you’re reading this, I’m already home

If you’re reading this, there is going to come a day
You move on and find someone else and that’s okay
Just remember this
I’m in a better place
Soldiers live in peace and angels sing amazing grace

So lay me down
In that open field out on the edge of town
And know my soul is where my momma prayed where that it would go
If you’re reading this
If you’re reading this
I’m already home"

I LOVE YOU"
Your Wife of Pa

"Daddy Micheal,
Happy Fathers Day! Hugs and Kisses from your little girl! I love you bunches!"
Love, Shea Micheal of Pa

"Micheal/Daddy Micheal,
We honor you, our Hero, this Memorial Day. We are so proud of you! We love and miss you more than words could ever
express!"
Your wife and daughter of Pa

"Well it is time to honor our fallen heroes. Michael I miss you alot and think of your family often. I met some soldiers that were with you in Iraq, you sure are known well. You should here my son Dylan Michael talk about how his middle name is from a super hero. We love ya and miss you bro. Christine may god continue to guide you and Shea, and keep both of you under his umbrella of protection. RIP Michael, thanks for your service."
Rob burton of Hinesville, GA

"**Feb 14th, 2007~ V-day or as it feels: D-day**
Four years ago, Feb 11th 2003, we found out we were expecting our first baby. Four years ago, Feb 14th 2003, we got your deployment papers. Little did I know the things that happened on those two days in 2003 would change my life forever. And every February, since 2003, I can't help to think of those days..the day we knew we would be parents and the day you knew you were leaving me- forever. Energy can not be distroyed...it can only be changed. Therefore, I know you are still here. You shared your life with me like no other. You taught me things I didn't know I needed to learn. I know you are still here, teaching and loving me and Shea from above. Watching her grow up, seeing me struggle with your absence, and reminding me its good to have change and move forward in life. You forever changed my life, you only made it better. MISSING you will HURT me FOREVER, but being able to KNOW you and LOVE you has made ME happy FOREVER! I do my best everyday, to honor you, your wishes and raise your daughter as we discussed. She is so beautiful and having her was the best thing you gave me! She is my world! She is half of you and my last gift you gave to me. She reminds me everyday of the friendship and love we shared together, once upon a long time ago....
I have ALL of your letters you wrote to me...from before we met, all the way to the ones I received after you died. They are priceless to me and I will cherish them forever. Every memory I have of you I will share with Shea, her Daddy Micheal up in Heaven! Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today...Feb 14th....
With love always and forever,"
Christine of Pennsylvania

"i've known spc.robert oliver unruh since i was in the sixth grade his sister and have friends since then as well.she has had arough time dealing with his death and their mothers too.but at least they are together in heaven though.i wish she could find the girl from korea that he was dating there.so that she would have some closure forboth of them."
jennifer d of bedford va

"your birthday has come and gone but you are not here to help celebrate it. still we here in va sadly miss you too"
the dooleys of bedford va

"christine we love and miss you as well we may be contacted at dooley_949@msn.com"
jennifer of bedford va

"your birthday has come and gone but you are not here to help celebrate it still we here in va sadly miss you too"
the dooleys of bedford va

"Micheal,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
Have a Great Birthday in Heaven! We will be celebrating your life too! You are loved and missed by us everyday!
Love Always,
Christine, Shea and all your four legged kids too!"
Wife and daughter of Sgt Dooley of Pa

"Micheal
Oh man
Who would have thought
Standing in a VFW building.
Trying to get drunk
Practicly impossible due to the events of the weekend prior.
Playing pool.
Watching you and your wife kiss, wishing that she would leave you alone for five seconds, so we could play a game. I rememeber every second man. You bought me an RC Coke a couple hours before you left us, and told me that you get paid extra to take care of soldiers.
Today I realized that you are the person that has motivated me, and carried me through two; one year deployments, and in October will carry me through three. I am a combat soldier just as you were. And just as you told me years ago the difference between an NCO and a E-5 is that an NCO cares about the soldier and an E-5 cares about the money. Three years later it has stuck with me and will stick with my soldiers, forever I hope. If I can't teach my soldiers somethoing new every day than I hope my rank is taking from me. I will remain a soldier that was born and raised by you, reguardless of how long I knew you.
Christine I pray that you find someone as rewarding as Micheal.
Godbless
SGT JaySipes"
jay sipes of Ft. Hood, TX

"To My Hubby,
I am Thankful on this Thanksgiving to have had the pleasure of knowing you, loving you, creating lots of memories with you and creating our baby girl with you! I am Thankful that there are brave men like you, who have been brave enough to serve and protect our country no matter the cost, so that we do not have to fight a war here at home. Wish you were here with us instead...but Thank You for your service!
We will miss you forever!"
Your Wife of Pa

"Michael, thank you for being such a brave and strong soldier. We owe our freedom to you and so many more. I will keep you and your family and the rest of our fighting soldiers in my prayers.
Orig-Hazleton,PA."
Linda of Barnhart,Mo

"Just a note from mom to let you know that you are loved and missed every day.
I know you are in Heaven Son.
Love and miss ya!!!!
xoxoxoxo,
Mom"
Ann Wiseman

"I miss you this has been the hardest thing for me I love you and invited you. I miss you always. You are the impact on my life. I promised to stay in touch with your late wife but it still to this day hurt like hell. I remember many nights, and days you read either letter from your lady or the paper for stats on the sox. Ironic that they won the year after you passed to some coward * punk. You have hanged my life. You had the best woman ever I'm sorry I cant bear to talk to you girls. I'm sorry I haven't visited your grave I miss you still every day I feel I set you short some how. It still hurt like the first day. I love you for being the truest man I ever met................."
Scott Blow of US

"All I am going to say is may God bless you and thank you for your strength, he is looking down on you with pride, we all miss Micheal and are for ever grateful for knowing him. Thank you for the example you set."
Rob & Summer Burton of Back @ Ft Stewart, GA

"This is Micheal's wife, Christine. Its been a while since I have written and I just want to thank all of you for coming on here and leaving messages. I read all the messages. I should probably leave my e-mail incase any friends or family want to contact me. Its: tinimarie318@yahoo.com. Anyway...Shea and I are doing very well. She is so beautiful and such a smart, happy child. I am so blessed that Micheal left me with a child before he died. She has been the main reason why I can cope so well. Its still hard everyday, it always will be. Especially when shea asks questions about him or says she wishes she could have a "daddy micheal kiss"....OH, IT JUST BREAKS MY HEART TO HEAR THINGS LIKE THAT. But I just tell her he wishes he could kiss her, he loves her and then I kiss her. I don't think she "misses" him in the same sense that I do...she can't, she never knew him. But she just misses his absence. But she doesn't say those things often. She has so many people in her life that love her so she has plenty of love. By the way, she is 2 1/2 years old now. She loves winnie the pooh and reading books. She loves to play in the mud and get her nails painted and her hair done! She is very thoughtful, says please and thank you, God bless you (if some sneezes) and will ask if you are ok if you are coughing. She is very pleasant 95% of the time...the other 5% she is evil! Thats what being 2 does to a child I guess. I am doing well. Like I said, its hard but he left me with little "instuctions" on how he would want things and he always told me to be strong. He taught me a lot about love and life. He dealt with a lot of bad stuff growning up but was the strongest person I have ever met. She could do anything! And always had a smile on his face. Even when we would argue, he would end up tickling me to change my anger into happiness. For having him in my life I am forever greatful. A few years of happiness I had with him was worth a lifetime of forever missing him. I don't like to cry over him much cause I know he wouldn't like that. I try to remember him and pay tribute to him and remember him instead of crying about it. Although, sometimes, I just need a good cry! Sorry Micheal! Well, I am going to go. Like I said, if you want to contact me, please feel free! But NO ANTI-WAR e-mails, harassment or anything else negative. These men and women died for OUR freedom!!!!!!!!! Remember that. I hate ungrateful "Americans". I believe they should all be sent to war to experiance it for themselves. Then maybe they would change their minds and opinions. But I will stop there...Take care!"
Christine of Pa

"Christine and Shea,
Hi, this is Tabitha, (Michael's childhood friend), I just wanted to check on his girls and see how things are going. I bet Shea is getting so big. My son Jacob is three years old now. Where does the time go? Christine, everytime I view this site, My heart aches for you and Shea. My husband is in the Air Force and I am haunted by the thought of something tragic happening to him while being in the military. I am astounded by the way you have handled things and you make me so proud to be a military wife.My thoughts and prayers are with you daily and If I can ever be of any help to you or your family, PLEASE let me know. I love you all-Tabitha
coopergirl23@yahoo.com"
Tabitha of Wichita Falls, TX

"I just finished reading about your husband in "Their Last Words." I cried the entire time I read your story. Your husband was an incredible man, you can tell that he truely loved you and Shea, and he loved his country! My heart goes out to you and all the families of our service men/woman who have lost their lives fighting for our freedom! I thank you for your sacrifice, I pray that you and Shea continue to be strong and know that there are people like me, that although I have never met you or your husband, you will all have a special place in my heart! Thank You!"
Debbie Thomas of Jefferson City, MO

"SGT Dooley I worked together in C Company, 4-64 Armor, Ft Stewart, GA. HE is a great soldier and most of important he is my friend."
Jeffrey L. Dunkleman of ft knox, ky

"SGT Dooley I worked together in C Company, 4-64 Armor, Ft Stewart, GA. HE is a great soldier and most of important he ws my friend."
Jeffrey L. Dunkleman of ft knox, ky

"my dad was also micheal dooley. very sorry for your loss."
johnny dooley of ireland

"Christine, I just wanted to say your husband is a true Hero and I want to thank him for his ultimate sacrifice. The reason why I know about Sergeant Michael Dooley is because of the book, "Their Last Words A Tribute to Soldiers Who Lost Their Lives In Iraq." When I first read your story I cried, not only because of the love I read about but the Hero that will forever stick out in my mind. You have lost your husband but you have a beautiful
bundle of joy that will always be her daddy's little Hero that will forever cherish what her father has done for our country. You have inspired me to write a soldier serving overseas, just for the fact of keeping their spirits up and letting them know how much they are greatly appreciated. So thank you Micheal, may you rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. God Bless you Christine and Shea you are forever in my prayers."
Katie of Wisconsin

"SSG Dooley is still remembered to this day by guys in the Troop who have returned to Iraq for a second tour. They bring his memory and lessons learned to ensure that his and his family's loss will not be in vain. I did not know SSG Dooley personally but knew of him and am proud to now command the Troop that he will always belong to. SSG Dooley will always be a Bandit and his memory will continue to travel with the Troopers as they conduct their current missions and ensure they don't take anything for granted. To the family of SSG Dooley I am sorry for your loss but rest assured every Bandit Trooper knows of him and his stories. SFC HUll and 4th Platoon will always have a gunner's seat open for him when they meet again. Thanks SSG Dooley for allowing your memory to continue to teach new young Troopers what to be aware of. Bandit Troop will carry your memory even to Hood when they move and your picture will always hang on memory wall in the Troop S&A. Thanks for your sacrifice. (Bandit 6)"
CPT Bill Eldridge of Rabi'ah Iraq (Syrian Border Again)

"Thank You to everyone who visit this site and still remember ALL of our Hero's. It's nice to know, hear and read that even after two years, our Hero is not forgotten. We, his family, will never forget him. Its great to hear that other people haven't forgotten him either! So Thank You again for your support and your kind thoughts about our Hero."
Christine and Shea Dooley (Proud wife and daughter) of Murrysville, Pa

"Today is the Army's birthday, on this day we remember our fallen brothers and sisters who sacrificed everything for our safety, I miss you Micheal, your our hero brother!"
Rob, Summer , Savanna, & Dylan Micheal Burton of Ft Lewis, Wa

"Still thinking of you Michael, and Christine to you may god continue to bless you and keep your family in good health. To my bro "Dooley", I miss you more than you'll ever know buddy see you on high ground Tanker!"
Rob Burton of Ft Lewis, Wa

"There is not a single week that goes without me thinking about that day 8 June 2003. I think to myself about the what if's and wish that I could have been in your place. I wish I could have saved your life but as a Medic I understand that there are somethings that are beyond my control. When I look down at my Combat Medic Badge on my uniform I wear it to honor you and to never forget the sacrifice that you made. My heart goes out to your family. God bless the Dooley family. SGT Dooley I will see you at the Fiddler's Green. Brave Rifles"
SGT(P) AGUILAR, GREG of Ft Bliss, Tx

"I met Michael when he first came to Pulaski. He was such a nice guy. Always smiling. My thoughts & prayers are with his family."
Star Lester of NYC, USA

"I have been watching the news channels today. They are saying that the voting in Iraq was very successful and turned out even better than they expected. That makes me very happy that the Iraqis can enjoy some of the freedoms we sometimes take for granted in the USA. I am proud that they came out to vote, despite all the threats of the stupid terrorists. Someone on the TV said that they feel all the sacrifice's made were worth it, including the soldiers who gave the ultimate sacrafic. I do disagree with that statement because nothing will ever be worth my husband Micheals death. But it does make me feel better that he and many others made a difference in making the world a safer place. He will be forever missed and loved by Shea and I. He went to war cause he believed in keeping the world safe. And if that meant dying to keep his family safe he was willing to do it. He is a true HERO. And he will be forever Honored by us and will always be in our hearts."
Christine Dooley of Murrysville, Pa

"To the Dooley Family; ALthough I don't know you personally I will be forever connected to your son, as my husband has already wrote on this site, my son Dylan Micheal Burton was named after Micheal. My husband and him were stationed in GA together and were close friends. I am soo proud as a mother to have been able to connect Dylan to such a wonderful son, husband, daddy,and hero. Christine, My heart and soul goes out to you, being a military family you would think that you are more prepared for tragedy, you're not, but as I have seen in the emails you have sent to my husband and the pictures I have seen you are doing an absolutely amazing job. We may never meet but please remember that Dylan will be raised with the pride of knowing what an amazing person Micheal was and he will never be forgotten. Gob Bless you all!"
Summer Burton of Ft. Lewis, WA

"To the Dooley Family. I was a Combat Medic deployed for Enduring Freedom at the start of the Iraqi War. Upon my return to the states I wanted to remember fallen heroes in the best way I possibly could. I found a KIA Braclet at the Ft. Carson PX which contained SGT Dooley's name. It was the only one they had from Iraqi Freedom. I immediately got it and put it on my wrist so I would always remember a fallen hero. That was July 31, 2003. As I write this, it is November 24, 2004. I have not taken the braclet off and do not plan to. It has been the center of many conversations that I have had of my experience during that time. I have everyday looked upon the braclet and felt a loss of a fallen comrade, even though I have never met SGT Dooley. I have been searching all this time (over a year now) for information about SGT Dooley and at last found this site on my computer. I wish to send my eternal respects and thanks to the family. I will remember Shea in my prayers. I thank God for allowing me to find this site and learn a little about SGT Dooley. It has helped me "close" a chapter in my life, but never forget. To SGT Dooley I say you deserve the rest in God's arms that you have earned. I am still a member of the 45th INF BDE Oklhamo Army National Guard, 7th ID. "Bayonet""
SGT Douglas May of Chelsea, OK

"I never met Michael but heard so much about him from my husband. He was SSG Dooley's Army recruiter and was so excited when he came in to join the military. All I heard was how intelligent and motivated Michael was to be beginning this new career. Being an Army wife myself, I am very proud of Michael for being such a brave young soldier. Christine, you have so much to be proud of and such a beautiful reminder of Michael. I'm sure that every time you look until your little girl's eyes, that you know Michael is right there with you both. My husband had a really hard time when he heard of Michaels's passing and also wishes to extend to you his thoughts and prayers as well.

angieb4frb@yahoo.com"
Angie Barlow of Fort Lee, VA

"on that day i lost the greatest guy i have ever met.it was hard to take because when we were in kuwait i asked him to take care of my wife if i was killed and he told me only if you take care of mine and i said dont worry about that you will be alright.i met this man 3 years ago in ft.stewart ga and are friendship grew,from drinking beer to going out and having a good old time the rest of my time in iraq was sad knowing my good friend was gone.and then on dec 14 i was wounded and i felt like he was looking over me.his memory will live with me for ever i miss you and i always will.your friend scott."
SSG.SCOTT TELLADO of FT.KNOX KY

"This one is to Micheal,Micheal I am so proud of you and all of your accomplishments in life. I know that growing up in Pulaski VA was a far cry from growing up in Mayberry, but we got out and joined the military. You went Army, I went Air Force. Either way, we both decided to get out of Pulaski and do something for our lives, our family, our country. I miss you everyday and think of you always. You and your family are always in my prayers. I pray that God blesses your sweet little baby girl. I speak with Ann(his mother) for those who don't know him personally, quite frequently and she takes things day by day like everyone else and she misses you so much. You are a true blessing to her. Christine, if you are reading this, Micheal was one of my best friends in life growing up and I think of ALL of you everyday, I love you all and I pray that God blesses you with his richest blessing.
-SrA Tabitha Cooper (Griswold)"
Tabitha Cooper (Griswold) of Elmendorf AFB, USA

"Defender of Freedom

You shined up your boots; you rolled up your sleeves,
You signed up to fight, knowing you'd leave.

You asked not, "Where to?" Nor,"How long will it
be?"
Thank you for standing and fighting for me.

Uncertain of your path, you packed up your bag,
Marching with pride in defense of our flag.

Leaving your family so far from sight,
Protecting us all, doing what's right.

Your journey is long, and sometimes it's hell,
Thank you, noble warrior, for doing it well.

Off in a land so far away, doing your duty,
For your safety we pray.

With honor and vigilance, you stand on a wall,
When others said "no", you answered the call.

You watch over us all with eyes sharp and clear,
We sleep soundly tonight, without any fear.

Your nights may be long, some cold and some dark,
The greatest weapon you have is what's in your heart.

Each day that dawns brings you a new task,
Defender of freedom, what more could we ask?

Selflessness and strength guide all that you do,
Giving of yourself for those who need you.

You ask not for praise, nor for a small thanks,
Your job is your reward, rising up through the ranks.

You've earned your rights; you're earned your place,
To see true courage is to look at your face.

You have shown you are brave, steadfast and true.
How can we repay? What should we do?

Your country has called you, you're the ones that we trust
May God watch over you, as you've done for us.

We cannot be with you, you're too far from home
But we're proud and we're grateful---you're never alone."
Karen txowgirlmedic@yahoo.com of Texas

"Christine i wont to say Michael is sadely missed and i know that he was a great soldier. I am with StarSupportMilitaryGroup and we are here for you allways. We love you and we loved Michael. I know that he will be missed allways. Little Shea is a little living doll and just like him.
May God Bless You Allways Wanda"
Wanda of Manchester, Tenn USA

"May God give this fallen heroes family the strength and guidance to help them through these difficult days ahead..May it be a little comfort to them knowing so many grieve along with them that this young man gave his life doing something he believed in..God Bless.."
Vanessia of Marion, Ohio

"It is with heavy heart that I post a thank you note to the memory of Michal E. Dooley for giving the ultimate sacrifice for freedom. I pray that his family and friends find comfort in knowing that he will never be forgotten and is a true hero in every aspect of the word. God bless his family and friends."
Marlene Tussey of Harrisburg, PA

"My name is James Sipes of B Trp, 4th platoon, 1/3 ACR. Sgt. Dooley was a good friend. And a great NCO. I got put in 4th platoon on Feb. 7, 2003. Sgt. Dooley was the gunner on my tank. I loved the guy from day one. He was awesome and he had great skills as a tanker and a lot of pride with being a tanker. On June 8th, 2003 we lost a great friend, who we will never be able to replace. On behalf of SFC Hull, 1LT Thompson, SSG Oates, SSG Beyer, Sgt Blow, Sgt Moorehead, Sgt Coats, Sgt Garcia, Sgt Allen, Sgt Hatch, SPC Ancheta, SPC Norton, SPC Thorpe, PVT Langdon, and myself, I want to express our sincere sympathy for the loss of your husband. I am truely sorry, and I know that given the situation anyone of us would have gladly taken his place."
PFC James Sipes of Ft. Carson, CO

"Dear Michael, I didnt know you for very long, but you were the type of person who didnt take long to get to know. Your sacrafice has made a huge impact on my life and you and it will not be forgotten. I will do all I can to be a positive influence on the daughter you never met, Shea. Rest in peace. You are a true hero."
Steve Larsen of Pgh. Pa

"Well its been slightly over a year now, and its hard to believe. I am proud of the way we got through it, I know his strength carried me when times I feel like I couldn't go any further. Now I have my own strength to live my life and deal with things as they are given to me. Today is fathers day, it would of been his first one. Last year on fathers day I spent it with him in the funeral home. I was alone with him, for his viewings didn't start till the next day. I put his favorite hat, watch, and wedding band on him one last time. I gave him 7 roses also. Six of them represented our cats and dogs, who he called his four legged kids. And they truely were. The seventh one was from his unborn baby he gave me. He has given me a beautiful little girl to love. On days I felt like my heart had had too much, she was there to put more love into it. No matter where our lives take us, she will always be my miracle and strength. I have a wonderful family and wonderful friends who have gotten me through the past year. Without all the support I recieved I don't know where I would be today. The first year is over, meaning I have done and gone through everything atleast once. I feel like I have come out of a horrible storm, I am proud of myself and thankful for my support system. Micheal will always be in my heart and never forgotten. Happy fathers day Micheal, You should be proud of our little girl, she is awesome!
Love,
Christine

Dear Daddy,
Happy fathers day! We love you and miss you always.
Love,
Your daughter Shea and all your four legged kids...Savannah, Mallory, Archie, Larrie, Noah and Chandler
Love,"
Your family of Murrysville, Pa

"In Loving Memory..Its been a year..

At the rising of the sun and at its going down, We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter, We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring, We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer, We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn, We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends, We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
Rest in Peace Dear Soldier!! We will NEVER FORGET!"
The Grogan Family of Lakeland, TN

"To the Dooley family, I was stationed with Michael @ Ft Stewart, Ga, we went to the desert together the first time, he was also my roomate for a short time, I love that guy and he will be truly missed, he could always make us laugh in the roughest situations. I am having a son in September and I am naming his middle name Michael in honor oh Mike. To his wife and child, he died a hero and doing his job as a leader, My heartfelt thoughts are with you always. Please e-mail me if you need anything. Thank"
SGT Rob Burton, rob.w.burton@us.army.mil of FT Lewis, WA/ USA

"Mrs. Dooley, I just finished sewing the Marine Comfort Quilt in honor of your husband. I was visiting this sight to put a face to the name on the quilt. Your message expressing your love for your husband brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for giving your husband for my family's freedom. May the Lord bring you comfort. You are in my prayers. Please remember that I sewed together your quilt with much love!"
Jori Hazen of Richmond, TX

"God bless you and your family"

"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness, and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief. Your HERO, Michael, will be remembered by name. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you. Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana "

"Sergeant Dooley, goodbye soldier and thank you. You are my hero."
Bill of Houston, Texas

"my name is mr.jesse aguilar,a vietnam veteran and father of sgt gregory r.aguilar.my son greg was the medic assigned to the check point where michael lost his life.my son greg is a very good medic and did all he could to save michael's life.it is with very great sorrow that i send this message.personaly i have never meet michael,but on behalf of myself,my son and family,i want to express our very sincere sympathy for the lost of a very fine young man.my god bless his wife, daughter and family and watch over them.(the lord has blessed me and my family. my son greg has returned,safely,to fort carson,colorado).amen"
mr jesse aguilar of san antonio,tx

"To the family of SSG Dooley.

I am originally from VA and Ft. Carson was also my Duty Station but I can not say I did know Michael. I can say though that it would've been an honor to have known him. I have so much respect for him and for your family for bringing him into this world and for you Christine, his wife for helping his legacy to live on in such an amazingly beautiful little girl. I can not imagine what you went through with your pregnancy and the loss of your husband, I can not imagine how you felt or what you dealt with but even trying to comphrend it brings so much pain and sadness to my heart. Your husband did not die in vain though, he will FOREVER be remembered as a hero and his daughter can hold her head high and proud as she grows up and tell everyone that they are here and they are free because of people like her amazing daddy. I too have a newborn daughter, she is just a few months older than yours. She was born May 20th of last year. If you'd like to chat sometime, about ANYTHING at all or you just need someone to talk to then please feel free to e-mail me. My e-mail address is Tiff4USARMY@yahoo.com and thank you again for allowing us the chance to know such a true american hero...RIP SSG Dooley and know you're forever respected and loved by your country!"
Tiffany of GA

"Thank You Micheal E. Dooley for giving your all for your country. You have a beautiful baby. I'm sure you are her guardian angel. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND COMFORT THEM."
DANA HUSLEY A PROUD MILITARY WIFE of MISSISSIPPI

"You are a brave soldier who gave the ultimate sacrifice.You gave your life for people you didn't even know. I would like to send my deepest sympathy to your family who is going through an undoubtable time right now.Thank you for your service."
James of Lynn, massachusetts

"Thank You for all your continued support. It is horrible that such a wonderful person like Micheal was killed but he will always be a Hero. He was such a honest, trusting, caring person who took his life and military career very seroiusly but he always knew how to have a good time. He said he was willing to die for his country if he had to and thats exactly what he did. I know he misses his family and friends dearly but he died a true Hero. Our daughter will truely miss out on being raised by such a wonderful man. He loved her since the day he found I was pregnant, he was so excited about becoming a dad. I know he is her guardian angel and will watch her grow up. Thank You Micheal for the wonderful years we shared, all the laughter, tears, love,and friendship. I will forever love you and think about you all the time. I will raise Shea to know everything about you and I am sure she will grow up being as proud of you as I am. I Love You fovever and always,"
Your wife, Christine of Murrysville, Pa, USA

"Thank you Micheal Dooley, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios

"I found this site by accident, but as an Army Brat I was reminded of the sacerfice that our freedom costs. My thoughts are with you and your family"
Michael E. Dooley of St. Louis, MO

"I never knew Dooley butI did know that he died serving our country. i feel for the family and friends of him because i have experienced it already... i am sorry. I know that he is in a better place and that he died fighting for our freedom..."
Lindsay of Ny

"May God be with your family. My prayers will always be with you.
This is a poem in memory of all the soldiers who have fallen during "Operation Iraqi Freedom"

Being a soldier is hard to do,
They stand for our country strong and true.

For our freedom the fight so brave,
Against whoever may stand in our way.

When it is time to answer the call,
They always give it their all.

They train for this day in and day out,
And now war is what their life is all about.

Our soldiers are couragous men,
Who never give up until they win.

Some will surely make it through,
Others will find a home anew.

For God will take them to their home far away,
But their souls will march on everyday.

Peace is what we need on this earth,
For fighting war and losing soldiers there is no worth.

But soldiers answer what they are called to do,
I thank God for them, they protect me and you.

Freedom is their gift to us,
During hard times like these it is in God we need to trust.

GOD BLESS AMERICA!!

We will NEVER forget the brave soldiers who have departed. May God Bless their families and loved ones. And may God be with our brave soldiers still fighting in Iraq!"
Lori Hester of Marion, Virginia

"Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this hard time. May God comfort and bless you in the days to come. SGT Dooley was one of the many brave soldiers fighting for our country and we are very thankful for that. Congratulations on the new baby coming in October. May he be one of the many sweet memories of SGT. Dooley. Once again our prayers are with you! God Bless!"
Operation SOS (Support Our Soldiers) of Bristol, VA

"Cristine, I want you to know I am always here for you. Im glad I have found a friend in you. you are right our husbands brought us together so we could help eachother through this. so dont forget I am always here for you and the baby. And i am sorry we had to meet the way we did.but I am so happy we met."
Melissa Givens of Colorado Springs Co

"To the family and friends of Sgt. Michael Dooley:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Michael for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada

"To the family and friends of Sgt. Michael Dooley:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Michael, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia