Fallen Heroes of Operation Iraqi Freedom

"I was a squad leader with Ryan in boot camp, he was what a Marine is supposed to be. Thank you. I will never forget."
Erik of State College, PA

"I knew PFC Cox in School of Infantry. I just found out about his passing. He was a good Marine and friend and I am sorry for your loss."
Kacey Cox of Jones Creek, TX

"I never had the chance to know Pfc. Cox, but I was the helicopter pilot who flew him back to Kuwait after he died, the first leg of his journey back to his family. I am honored to have been able to help get him home. I think of him often and wish I could have known him. God Bless Ryan and all of the Cox family. Semper Fi."
Capt. Chris Dalton, USMC of Washington, DC

"To the family of:Ryan R. Cox I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. My heart cries out for you in your grief and you have my thoughts and prayers. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Prayerfully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to, please call or write my pastor: Rev. John Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd., Covington, GA 30016. (770)787-1015. Your friend in Jesus Christ, Polly Ballew Covington,Ga"

"i only met PFC Cox a couple times from when he first joined Charley , but he was a good kid . you will be remembered always"
SGT "Junkyard" Jason Grace

"Five years later I still dream about you. He was always a friend. I seen him every day for 8 years in school. Our lockers were right next to eachother for 3 years. We knew eachothers combo and left eachother notes almost everyday. We had half our classes together and always sat by eachother. We got back in touch just 1 month before he was deployed. We shared our childhood memories and made new ones. You will Never be forgotten. I miss you but find comfort in knowing we will meet again."
E.S.C. of Wellington, KS

"February 2, 2008
To the family of Pfc. Ryan R. Cox:
Ryan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV

"Dear Family of Ryan Cox:
To honor the kansas soldiers who have lost their lives in Iraq and Afghanistan and their families, the professional portrait artists of the "Grateful Hearts Project" are offering to paint a portrait of the individual soldier for his family.

These 16"x20" original portraits are being offered completely free of charge in recognition of the sacrificies made by these brave soldier and in condolence for their families loss.
Please email us at gratefulheartsproj@sbcglobal.net for more information.
Sincerely;
The artists of Grateful Hearts"
J.Gragg of lee's summit, mo.

"Rest in peace Ryan.
Semper Fi.
From a USMC brat, born in Twentynine Palms."
Dana Davis, RN of Louisville, KY

"Ryan,
I would like to say thank you for your service and sacrifiice for our Country. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy. After reading the reflections left here for you, all I can I say is that I wish that I had had the privilege of serving with you when I was in.

Semper Fi Devil Dog!"

"Thank-You"
of Oklahoma

"Dear Cox Family, Your sacrifice has been great, may God comfort you with his healing. I am thankful for Marines who continue to serve our diverse country despite the difficulties they or their familes may encounter. His character gives me hope & his service helps me stand tall. My service was 12 years and I am thankful for our great brotherhood. We love you. Semper Fi Devil Dog!"
Lt. Gary Fayard, USMC,USN of Waynesboro, MS

"Although i did not know Ryan, I wanted to offer my thanks and appreciation for all that he did for me and for this country. Reading the things that people have posted about him makes me wish I could have known him because it sounds like he was such a wonderful person. I thank him for being so brave. He will forever be a hero in my eyes."
Amberly Cox of Waco, Tx

"Semper Fi
Get Some
LCpl Hammer, Texas Marine"
Hammer of Texas

"Ryan,
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't feel personally responsible for what happened. All I can think of is what if I did this or that. I feel like I let you and your family down. You were an awesome Marine and I wish I could have done things differently."
SSgt Jessee Harris of Sedalia, Missouri

"you came to our company and i didnt know you for long but you were a goood man and marine"
james shotwell usmc retired of phoenix az

"Ryan, there's not a day goes by that the thought of you doesn't cross my mind..I remember being a freshman in high school.. scared out of my mind.. you came over, sat down next to me and just started talking to me as if we had known each other all along..and ever since that day, you said if I ever needed anything.. you'd be there watching out for me, no matter what..that meant soo much to me, you have no idea and I only wish I told you.. but now I extend the same offer to your family..though I'm miles away.. my heart is still in Kansas.. Throughout the past few years, you have become my inspiration & motivation, for me to continue the countless hours of studying/training to become an Army helicopter pilot..And it's strange to think I'm already half way done!! I wish I could take you on a flight and show you how far your ability to listen & pep talks has gotten me since you've left, but everytime I fly I know I'm that much closer to you and your watching out for me....even 'til this day.. I MISS YOU!!"
Kayleigh Karasko of North Dakota, USA

"PFC Cox you are always remembered, I tell Marines of you every chance I get. Every weapon I find not properly on safe gets a very stern verbal couseling from the Gunny and a story about PFC Ryan Cox. Guard them gates well PFC Cox, we will see you soon. "Suicide Charley" 1st Plt Sgt 2003-2005"
GySgt Larry Long of Corpus Christi, TX

"rest in peace brother i never knew u but i feel u like the brother u are to me once a marine always a marine"
cpl knox of tenn colony, tx

"Rest In Peace you are now in a new home up abouve in heaven ."
Ryan cox of Republic Of South Africa

"To Ryan's parents, while I never knew your son, I am extremely proud to have him as one of my Marine Brethren. I am truly sorry for your loss. You obviously raised a good boy into a great man. A man that was willing to do whatever it takes to protect the freedom of others, even though he didn't know them personally. This is what we are taught as Marines. Your son is a prime example of what a Marine is and is willing to do. God bless you and your family. Semper Fidelis"
Lcpl Strader III of San Diego, CA

"Brother, I remember when I seen you at a party at my friend Justins house. You came up to me and showed me the EGA tatooed on your forearm. You will always be remembered. Rest in Peace brother"
Cpl. Petty, Justin of Wichita KS

"I had the pleasure to meet your son before he first left to iraq with my husabnd, i am sorry to hear about your loss. i am deeply sorry for your loss. his memory will always remain in our thoughts and family. Thank you Ryan for the sacrfice you gave."
The Alicea Family of Twentnynine Palms, CA

"I'll see you soon, brother..."
P. of Derby, Class of 2002

"always ryan will be in my heart and soul as a wonderful person all i can say is good as i first moved to Derby 2001 i meet Ryan and he was one of the few friends that i found there he always did what he could to help any one in need when Ryan graduated i never heard from him i never knew where he had gone and the day i seen the news witch i dont really watch very often i seen that he had served and it had taken his life i felt as if i could not move Ryan was always nice and helpful why? was my question but now as i have read this i under stand he died doing what he wanted to do and there again it goes to show that Ryan would do any thing he could to help ANYONE in need! thank you Ryan for so many good times and for being such a great friend and person in general!! we will always miss you!all my thoughts go out to your family witch i never had the chance to meet YET but would love to some day"
Amber Regier and family of Walton kansas

"1/25/05
Thank you brave Marine! We appreciate what you did for all of us. You are our hero and we will not forget you. Semper Fi."
Jim & Margie Shaw of Pasadena, Maryland

"Robin, time will never be able to heal your loss. God alone can offer comfort, but I offer my apologies for all that has transpired and ask that the Grace of God and His Peace be enough to carry you through till you once again shall see Ryan. I'm so sorry!"
Larrry of Wentzville, MO

"semper fi to all of you, and my god be with u and not with them. david vincente you will be missed and not forgoten here. i rember when you guys first got to the unit and now you are out doing what you were trained to do . keep up the good woke and come home safe . till then god be with you

cpl. cessna 2/7 echo"
joe cessna of state college pa

"I am a stranger to this Marine but I want to offer honor to his memory and sacrafice. I pray that his family and friends have found the strength to go on with life and bear the unbearable."
Pete Daniels of Independence, KS

"I was there the night PFC Cox died, to this day I recall it vividly. While I did not know him personally, after meeting his family and hearing of his character and talking to his friends, this Marine was a tribute to his country, his family, and the United States Marine Corps. I cannot express to his mother and his father my anguish. He will always be in my thoughts and hope to see him again someday. I too will always remember..."
Cpl. Cross of Lawrence, KS

"I remember what happened... i remember hearing about it. i remember the green walls in the BAS. i remember the sound of the helo for the medivac. I remember... Take care brother...

Semper Fi"
1/7 Prepare to march

"Thank God for people like Ryan."
another Ryan Cox of Lexington, KY

"RIP Marine"
Petty Officer Cawthon of RTC Great Lakes, IL

"RIP Marine"
Petty Officer Cawthon of RTC Great Lakes, IL

"To the family of Ryan:

I have nothing but good things to say about those that died while serving our country. They are a very SPECIAL group of people. I am sure Ryan will be missed by many, and there are more people than you can count that are very grateful for everything he and his fallen comrades have done for us. He is truly a fallen hero and I hope to see him one day in heaven."
Darlene Reese of Wichita Falls, Tx. USA

"I'm a graduate of Derby, KS. So naturally I feel like he is my soldier too. I'm sorry for all those who have lost loved ones. I have a little boy who will be 5 and a little girl 3. They are my gifts from God as I know Ryan was to you and your family. To all of you that have lost loved ones May God bless you and be with you always. They have given the greatest gift. I'm glad to be an American and take pride in my forefathers and those protecting us today and sadly those who have lost their lives. God Bless our Men and Women in the service forever! God Bless America. Everytime I hear about a Soldier who has been hurt or lost their lives sadness feels my heart and I say a prayer for the family/friends. They all deserve the same recongnition as Pat Tillman. May God Bless him and his family as well."
Delores of Haysville, KS

"My heart truly goes out to the family of Ryan Cox. From everything I have read about this great American hero, his dying was a huge loss. His life was a true testament and symbol of all that is good about America. Thank God for good men like Ryan Cox."
Rick and Myra Simons of Old Hickory, TN

"Pfc Ryan Cox, or as I knew him, Cousin Ryan. Wow, what a great kid, man, and soldier! I remember how he sacrificed part of his short summer break, between high school and his leaving for the Marines, to be with my mom at the hospital in Nashville, TN. He was truly an amazing person.

When he came and stayed with us at our old home, just outside of Chicago, his actions and mannerisms were a conversation piece after he left. It isn't often that you meet someone that is so polite, caring, responsible, and proper. Usually things you don't like are what you notice, but Ryan was one that you couldn't help but notice and talk about how good that he was. He was so good to his little sister, taking time with her, illustrating a genuine love and care. We could learn so much from him.

Ryan is truly missed...and loved. It was evident by the turnout of so many people at the funeral just how good of a person he was.

I could go on and on, but I won't. I just want to say thank you to Ryan and the many others for their service to our country, paying the ultimate price for us."
Kerry McCreary of Chattanooga, TN / USA

"In Loving Memory..Its been a year..

At the rising of the sun and at its going down, We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter, We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring, We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer, We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn, We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends, We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
Rest in Peace Dear Marine!! Semper Fi! We will NEVER FORGET!""
The Grogan Family of Lakeland, TN

"In rememberance of Memorial Day, may God bless you and your family. You have made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom and liberty. My family will remember you for this as you are at peace."
Frank Marchesini and Family of Loudonville, NY

"I never had the pleasure of knowing Ryan, but he will always be a HERO in my heart.I just lost my Fiance and feel the pain that you have but please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God Bless you and give you the strength you need to get through this."
*Proud Finace of Cpl. David Vicente, 29 Palms, 2/7 Echo. KIA Iraq 3/19/04"
Alexandria of Methuen, MA

"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness, and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief. Your HERO, Ryan, will be remembered by name. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you. Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana "

"Private Cox, goodbye soldier and thank you. You are my hero."
Bill of Houston, Texas

"I went to school with Ryan, I had a number of classes with him and we were reasonably good friends. He was a good man, decent and respectable. I'm sure he made an excellent marine. I hold him in high regards as a man and as a protector of my country."
Scott. SPC USAR of Derby, KS

"We recently had a "Arlington West" memorial on the Univ. of Michigan campus. I was given Ryan's name to place on one of the crosses. I can't express how moved I was by this experience and how very sorry I am for your loss. I pray that your family will find some solice in knowing that there are many, many people who grieve with you and acknowledge the ultimate sacrifice that Ryan made in service to his country. God bless and protect you and yours."
Mary Heffelfinger

"Ryan, we all miss you so much! Everyday we saw you, you put a smile on our faces. We try not to think of what we lost, but more of what we gained by knowing you. We love you!!"
Sandra and Stacia of Derby, Kansas

"I am very sorry for your loss."
Michelle of Barker NY

"Ryan was an amazing individual, and a great Marine and I am honored to have gotten a chance to know him and his family. I recently was in 29 palms where he was stationed and was truly amazed at the pictures and memories of PFC Cox that were at the Movie theater, Post exchange and numerous other places around the base. He is truly missed and was highly looked up to by his fellow Marines. I do not hesitate to tell Marines about how great of a Marine Ryan was as we should all strive to be. My thoughts go out to his family and the Derby/Wellington community on a daily basis for their loss. Semper Fidelis"
SSgt Vick J.M. of 1st Marine Regiment, Camp Pendleton, CA

"Thank you Ryan Cox, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios

"Thank you Ryan, you will not be forgotten for your sacrifice, much love to your memory and family. Daisy."
Daisy of Ok.USA

"DEAR NEPHEW: WE DIDNT HAVE A CHANCE TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER, YOU WERE ALWAYS IN OUR MIND AND HEARTS. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!!! AND I PRAY THAT WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER ONE DAY."
THE FOSTER FAMILY of ST.LOUIS MO

"I will always remember Ryan for the wonderful person he was, not just for the sacrifices he made for all of us. May God bless his family in their time of immense tragedy."
Fellow DHS 2002 graduate of Derby,KS

"To the Family of Ryan Cox,

May god be with you. You are all in my prayers. I went to school with ryan i was a grad of 2001 Derby High School, and a fellow Marine as well. My prayers are with you."
LncCpl. Aaron K. Julius of Derby KS

"To the family and friends of Pfc. Ryan Cox:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Ryan for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada

"To the family and friends of Pfc. Ryan Cox:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Ryan, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia