Fallen Heroes of Operation Iraqi Freedom

"Katherine, Jimmy, Caroline, Jeff, and Joyce,

I am a student at the University of Colorado-Boulder. I was recently assigned a book report and I randomly chose to read the book Final Salute and throughout the past three days I have been captivated by your family's story. I must admit, at first I was less than thrilled to have to read a book about the military (being a naive 20 year old who has not been directly affected by war) but I was soon humbled to tears. Your story has changed me as a person. I am completely in awe of your son's, brother's, husband's and father's bravery and the courage of all the men and women who serve our country. My grandfather was a Marine and I never really understood the costs of war beyond the facts and figures I had read about in my history classes. I want to thank you for sharing your story, it has touched me beyond comprehension. I want you to know that your story is still alive and when I return this book to the Boulder Public Library nearly every page will be stained with tears. You have inspired me with your courage in the midst of unfathomable pain and loss. Even though I have never met you, I feel a special connection to you after seeing pictures and reading about your journey through such a devastating experience. I have already shared your story with many of my friends and family and want you to know that your family will be in my prayers.

With love,

Heather Vogel"
Heather Vogel of Boulder, CO

"Mrs. Cathey,
I think of Cat often. I will never forget checking Lt Cat in at the BAS. Had to give him a couple of shots. Mrs. Cathey we met at a get together for 1st platoon two nights before deployment. My wife and I ate with you and Cat later that night.
I was the company corspman for Golf co. I took care of him and his men in Iraq, as well as my two other corspman. So much memories, and as you feel, these months are the hardest for myself. Your husbands sacrifice is never forgotten. If you can only see all he has touched. If you know the story of how he passed, you would understand he truly gave his life for his Marines. please write if you get a chance (victoreverett@hotmail.com"
HM3 Victor Everett of Crestview, FL

"Mrs. Cathey,
I think of Cat often. We met at a get together for 1st platoon two nights before deployment. My wife and I ate with you and Cat later that night.
I was the company corspman for Golf co. So much memories, and as you feel, these months are the hardest for myself. Your husbands sacrifice is never forgotten. If you can only see all he has touched. If you know the story of how he passed, you would understand he truly gave his life for his Marines. please write if you get a chance (victoreverett@hotmail.com"
Victor Everett of Crestview, FL

"To the Cathey family:

James showed up to 2/3 Golf Co. 3rd platoon in 1998. I was his squad leader, and from the start I was impressed with his drive and determination to succeed and learn. I was a Sergeant at the time, and our platoon had an excellent deployment together. James was always the standout in our platoon and company. He had an incessant drive to learn and be the best. Eventually in 2000 I left the platoon for MECEP after teaching and training James everything I knew. He was an amazing Marine, and I know he has his family to thank for the work ethic he possessed. I moved on to college and stayed in touch with James. Soon enough I learned of his promotions, and his acceptance to MECEP as well. I was extremely proud of him, and was happy for him. He was trying to catch up to me in college even though I had a year head start. He almost did. We met up one spring break when he was in college, and it was just like old times. The same great sense of humor, and lots of stories that made me realize James' potential was limitless. I was commissioned in 2003 and met up with James at the end of 2004 when he was in TBS and I was leaving for 1/6 in Camp Lejeune. I met his wife briefly at their house aboard base. I kept his number because I wanted to meet up with him if he was able to join me at Camp Lejeune. I was in Fallujah by the time he told me he was going to Camp Lejeune. He was slated to replace 3/8 being that he had orders to 2/2. 3/8 was an adjacent battalion to mine in the Fallujah area, and I was making arrangements to get to Camp Fallujah once I knew 2/2 had arrived. I got the word of the incident anonymously not knowing which Lieutenant had fallen, and I had the worst feeling I have ever felt. I left my firmbase the next day and confirmed my fears by visiting his unit. I attended his memorial service along with his company and many Marines. I had always wanted to contact Katherine and his parents to let them know how truly amazing James was as a young Marine, and all that he and I had in common over the 7 years I knew him. His personality was uplifting, his character was exceptional, and his work ethic was unmatched. I will never forget our 5-day nature walk/jungle survival movement in Thailand. I have a picture of us on top of that mountain near Cambodia. Throughout all the toughest training, he always had a smile on his face. I will always remember him. I have never led a Marine like him since. God bless his wife and family.

Respectfully,"
Capt Patrick, W. J. of San Diego, CA

"Dear Mrs. Cathey,
I have seen your picture numerous times in emails and today looked up the information about your husband. I hope you know that even four years later I am, and will always be indebted to your husband and your family's ultimate sacrifice for my freedom. I am terribly sorry for your loss and pain and will always keep you and your family in my prayers."
Regina Costantino of Elyria, Ohio

"I just came across the moving/loving photos of Lt. Cathey and his wife. I am so moved!! May God bless you and your family."
Brian M. Foster (Prior Cpl USMC) of Saint Louis Mo

"I never had the pleasure of meeting Lt. Cathey, but I did serve in the Marines and I too feel like I have lost a brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family."
Kevin of Fort Worth, Texas

"HI, I just finished reading the book Final Salute and your story about your husband touched me the most. I really got a grasp of who he was.I Thank your husband for fighting for our country.Seeing you sleep beside your husband one more time brought tears to my eyes.I hope you and your children are doing well. He will always be with you."
ToniAnn of Trumbauersville

"May you never be foregotten sir. It was a honor to have served with you. God bless THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA and the loved ones you left behind."
William J. Crihfield of Jacksonville NC

"I can only remeber him as Sgt. Cathey, squad leader of Super Squad, and I was the A-Gunner in his 2nd Fireteam. He was the standard of a Marine Sgt, I think about him often and I would give anything just to show him the impact he had on my life. I will never forget you, Sgt Cathey, ever."
Sgt Paul Curtman - Golf Co., 2nd BN, 3rd Marines of Saint Louis, Missouri

"Lt. Cathey,
It's always hard for me to think about but I do it in spite because that is what you deserve. You were the best PLT CMDR I ever had. Rest assured YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. Semper Fi."
Sgt. Firestone of Camp Lejeune, NC

"Cat,
Hay brother,
It strange that we came up the ranks together in G 2/3. I remember when you left to school to become an officer. I was impressed of your leadership. When we met up again at TBS. It was a blessing that I had a chance to talk to you after the 81mm class at IOC. Ofcourse it was fun that an enlisted Marine seeing one of his brothers an Officer. I wish I could have saw you after you grad from TBS. When I got the news of you passing a Lt in your Platoon stopped me and told me what had happen I was in total shock. I just got word about joey a couple of days earlier. It's hard when your brothers leave. I miss you. God bless you and your family. We will meet up again Semper Fi brother."
SSGT Shawn D Garrett of K-bay Hi

"LT. CATHEY
THIS DAY IS ALWAYS BEEN REAL HARD FOR ME. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED AND YOUR SACRIFICE NEVER FORGOTTEN. I WAS IN LT. CAHTEY PLATOON AND EVERY YEAR ON THIS DAY I TAKE TIME TO REMEMBER LT.CAHTEY AND THE GREAT LEADER HE WAS. THANK YOU"
MARK VELEZ of MIRAMR, FL

"Dear Katherine,
I have just finished reading the book "Final Salute" by Jim Sheeler. As they say, pictures speak a thousand words, and of all those remembered in this book, yours touched me deeply. Your love for your husband is so evident in the author's words and pictures. So was your pain. I can't imagine that kind of pain. Please know that even though there is nothing I can do or say, that you are, and will be, in my thoughts and prayers. I hope, if you haven't already found it, that peace will settle in your heart and soul."
Donna Turpin of Crockett, Virginia

"Returning home
from a faraway land
he's silent now
no rifle in hand

Old glory covers
a son of the land
He's departed now
and in God's hand

Bravely he died
to keep us free
but oft I wonder
do others see?

Does America grieve
the loss of a son?
will we remember
this valiant one?

He's Just a name
in a long line of blue
but he gave his life
to protect me and you

So rest in peace
and thank you my son
I am so grateful
for what you have done"
Mark P. Nations Jr. MSgt, USAF (Retired) of Camp Arifjan Kuwait (Third Army)

"Memorial Day, 2008
To the family of 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey:
James gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV

"Catherine:

Thinking of you this memorial day ~

May he rest in peace."
Cassie of Echo Company - TBS

"Dearest 2nd Lt James Cathey's family and friends,
A few months ago, a friend sent me an email. I found myself at my work desk, with tears rolling down my checks. The photo of 2nd Lt James Cathey's body arriving at Reno, and the photo of his wife, Katherine, lying beside her husband's casket. These two photographs will forever remain within my heart and thoughts. Matter of fact, I wear a special label pin in memory of 2nd Lt. James Cathey, as well as, for rememberance of all of our fallen servicemembers. I thank the family members and friends for bringing 2nd Lt James Cathey into our hearts and minds. He did not die in vain, though we dont always know the reasons WHY, we strive on, and accomplish our mission regardless, of the WHY's. With unselfishness, with dedication, and with pride 2nd Lt James Cathey served his patriotric duty, his work shall NOT be forgotten. My prayers and thoughts extend to his family and friends. I am so moved by his sacrifice, as well as other servicemember's daily sacrifices that I have decided to further my own education (pursuing a graduate's degree) in an attempt to continue to make our Stars and Stripes forever free. In my notebook, I have displayed the two photographs, they go with me, wherever I go. These two photos remind me, that it is because of 2nd Lt James Cathey, that I have a responsibility to also find a way to make our homefront safe and free so that all can rest safely, while acknowledging that our freedom, safety, and liberties can NOT to be taken for granted. I salute the family and friends of 2nd Lt James Cathey. Thank you for sharing with us, such a remarkable individual and marine."
Debra A. Godfrey, Army Veteran of Wildwood, GA, U.S.A

"CAT
All of us will always remember you."
CPL. Lloyd

"I was privileged to be Sgt Cathey's Company Commander in G 2/3 from 99 until he left us for college in 2000. Without question, one of the finest Marines and men I will ever know. I think of Jim every day, and of the wife and son he left behind. I pray that God holds him close and that Jim watches over us. I know he keeps the watch with us. Semper Fi"
LtCol Pat Keane of Camp Lejeune NC

"Too often the good die young. This particular person was an asset not only to their family but to our great nation. Thank you for your selfless sacrifice and devotion to preserving the freedom so often taken for granted. God bless you on your journey to a better place, and watch over your family as they grieve a great loss. May your spirit surround them and the love that they have bring them closer together. Semper Fi."
Bonnie Skates of Uncasville, CT

"I was emailed the photo of you Mrs Cathy laying as close to your hero of a husband as possible. I am a veteran from the US Army but I also fill as if I have lost a brother in arms. I pray for you and your family and ask the lord to rap his loving arms around you and your family. (Lord I pray that you watch over all my brother and sisters in arms and if it is your will to bring them to your kingdom, give them a place to rest) because there work is done on this earth. Well done my brother, well done 2Lt James J. Cathy"
Special Agent Henri L. Cruse of Denton, Texas/ United States

"To you and your baby, I will never forget the name of 2ndLt Cathey and hold you in my prayers for life."
Janice Barnes of Sacramento, CA

"There are no words to describe the the gratitude I feel for your sacrifice. My heart goes out to your family. I hope that they might eventually find peace."
Claude Zeringue of Pearl River, LA USA

"My prayers goes to your family, for the easement of pain of missing someone they love Dearly. I too will soon have my 20 year old son in Iraq, and all I could do is pray for our Heavenly Father to keep him and others safe. GOD BLESS YOU and YOur Family, and thank you for all your sacrifices."
Maria Rose of Inverness Florida, USA

"May God bless you and your family. Thank you for all you have done as few of us have done so much. You are an inspiration for all. You have made a difference and I am proud to serve those who serve.

Godspeed, James."
Erik of Spring Grove, IL

"It's because of great citizens like Lt Cathey that America remains the land of the free and the home of the brave. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends."
Tom Thompson, Capt, USAF Reserve of Binghamton, NY USA

"CAT,
You will never be forgotten brother take care and will see you soon. 3rd herd!"
Ssgt Smith

"Mrs. Cathey,

I recently just received an email in regards to your story. Often people forward emails that are not true and I always go and check them out. I cannot begin to tell you how overwhelmed I was with the stories I found upon searching your name. I read every last one of them. I was deeply saddened, I cried and in the end I had somewhat of a smile on my face. The smile because of your strength. You are truly an amazing women which seems fitting that you were married to a truly amazing man.
It saddens me to know your son will never meet his father who is truly one of our countries heroes. God Bless you and your family. My family may not know yours but your family sacrificed a lot for mine as well as millions of others. You will forever be in our thoughts"
Teresa Hemphill of Los Angeles, California

"Cathey,
We served together a while back in Hawaii. You came in the platoon just before I was stationed elsewhere. You were a stand up guy and my prayers are with your family forever. In the past years I have heard of a lot of our brothers sacrificing it all for us and I am truly grateful. The Corps is down another Marine but they will carry on the tradition just as you did when you stepped on the yellow footprints. Semper Fi Marine! Rest in Peace!"
Blair Kelly FMR 2/3 U.S.M.C of Acworth, GA

"thank you ...
SEMPER FI"
Thomas of Germany

"2Lt. Cathey was one of the first Marines I ever met at the NROTC unit at CU Boulder. He taught me how to shoot a rifle and how to be a military leader. He is one of the reasons why I am going into the military when I graduate college. He is one of the best Marines I ever met.
Semper Fi, Sir. You will always be missed."
Adam Appelbaum of Boulder, CO

"I was in "Cat's" squad when he was a seargent in Hawaii. He was an amazing Marine and a great leader. I just recently learned of his passing. my heart goes out to his loved ones and I'll always remember Cat as one my brothers. God speed, Uncle Phill"
Sgt. Phillips D.L. of Perry, FL

"Ma'am I can't possibly express my feelings for your loss. My name is Lcpl. Steven M. Anderson and I served with your husband. He was my platoon commander at the time. I was always too afraid to write you or even talk about that day to anyone. I'm sorry if I have brought back something you did not want to think about. I just wanted to say that LT was a great guy and an outstanding leader that helped me become the Marine I am today. God bless you Ma'am. He'll never be forgotten."
Lcpl. Steven M. Anderson of Jacksonville NC USA

"Thank you to all of our soldies, for the freedom we have today and tomorrow. We love you all and our prayers go out to you and your families. To James J. Cathey's family. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you. James' story really touched me. God rest his soul and bless his soul and God bless your family."
Julio Cesar Avila of Pacoima, CA /U.S.A.

"Carolyn, Jeff, & Joyce,
I will always, love, support, and cherish you. If I could take away your pain I would do so in a heartbeat. Your son and brother was who he was because of you. Be proud...remember...live life as he would want you to! You WILL be with him agian."
amy of reno, nv/USA

"To the family of 2nd Lt. James Cathey:
Thank you for protecting each one of us, Kenny, Karen, Autumn and Shelby, so that we can be safe everyday to live and worship freely. You gave your all for us."
Karen Kiskis of Springfield, Ohio USA

"My many sympathies to the friends and families of this man. I did not personally know him, however I thank him and his fellow Military servicemembers for doing what they do. I know that they choose to join and they know at that time that they may one day have to go to war, however I cannot beleive that we allow this war to go on. We need to "take care" of the situation over there and then bring our soldiers home, NOT draw this out for years.... Please accept my gratitude for what you did so that my children can grow up and be whatever they may choose!!!! Thank you"
Holly Miller of Taneytown, Maryland/ UNITED STATES of AMERICA

"It's been a year now. I know in Mrs Cathey heart it seems like just yesterday. We are ever so grateful for the sacrifice that Lt.Cathey made. He will always remain in our hearts and in our minds. God bless"
V Pelt of Birmingham, Al

"I am an Army Major, and am constantly and again reminded that there are those who make the ultimate sacrifice for our way of life. I am deeply moved by the photos currently circulating the web.

Be proud of your loved one's service and sacrifice. There are those who will tell you that it was in vain. Don't believe that tripe for a single second. The work of the military has been and remains that of being an obstacle against those who would harm this country and its citizenry.

I am very proud to serve in a military force that includes such incredible souls as LT James Cathey.

May the blessings of freedom and liberty comfort you in these times."
William Lee of Washington, DC

"I am a wife of a soldier who has served in Iraq from March 03-Febuary 04, I have 3 children, I can't imagine the pain you are all enduring everyday without your loved one, my family and I will pray for you and only hope it brings you some comfort."
Angel LaMotte of Bellaire, Oh 43906

"To Lt Cathey,
Sir,
It will be an honor to someday say that I am a Marine. Your leadership, and dedication to Corps and Contry made it possible for me to accomplish the goals that I set out to acheive. You will always be an inspiration to me and the other students you influenced. Thank you for all that you did for me, you will never be forgotten.
SEMPER FI !!!
Candidate Vaynshteyn OCC 192"
Vaynshteyn Richard of Boulder Colorado

"I just received an email with the photo of you sleeping next to your husbands casket & wanted to wish you my deepest sympathy. I was moved to tears. You seem to forget what is going on over there until you see it up close. My cousin just came home from Iraq & I know how we thanked God when he finally stepped off the plane & we hugged him for first time. I know I never met you or your husband, but I can honestly say I will never forget either of you. Take care & God bless."
H. Zeimetz of Holdingford, MN-USA

"Rest well in the arms of the Lord
brave sir. I hope your passing reminds
people that they only have their freedoms because of the men and women like you."
Bill Crable of Shawnee Mission ks

"This is a poem that I wrote and I would like to give to you.
Memorial Day,
A day to remember men and women who have served and serves. A day to rejoice with loved one's who are home or in our memory's.
Tis a day to remember the fallen, wounded, our freedom keepers.
Memorial day is to remember those brothers adn sisters who have fought and are fighting .
The men and women who come home in steel caskets, covered with the flag that represents their country that they fought so hard for.
American sacrifices,
American freedom,
Americn soldiers,
Hero's to everyone, in our hearts forever.
A day just for them.
I cried when I read through it after I wrote it. I hope it doesn't make you mad. I just thought that I should give you something. I read about you and your family in a newspaper. I don't know you or your husband but I love you any way."
Kiley Woosley of Silver Springs NV, USA

"I saw the pictures of your husband's casket adn the one of you sleeping beside one last time. Your husband was a hero. The pictures made me realize how awesome freedom is. You are in my prayers."
Rachel of Mercer, PA

"I have created a presentation to honor Marine James J Cathey and several of his comrades

http://www.interestingpoint.com/index.php?showtopic=97"
Elizabeth Riegel of Clearlake CA USA

"The Plan of the Master Weaver

Our lives are but fine weavings
That God and we prepare,
Each life becomes a fabric planned
And fashioned in His care.

We may not always see just how
The weavings intertwine,
But we must trust the Master's hand
And follow His design,

For He can view the pattern
Upon the upper side,
While we must look from underneath
And trust in Him to guide......

Sometimes a strand of sorrow
Is added to His plan,
And though it's difficult for us,
We still must understand

That it's He who fills the shuttle,
It's He who knows what's best,
So we must weave in patience
And leave to Him the rest.....

Not till the loom is silent
And the shuttles cease to fly
Shall God unroll the canvas
And explain the reason why--

The dark threads are as needed
In the Weaver's skillful hand
As the threads of gold and silver
In the pattern He has planned.

From a Hallmark card, Author Unknown"
Dennis of Knoxville, TN

"God Bless this fallen brave Marine,2nd Lt.James J. Cathey
God needed another Marine,and in His Devine Grace called this one home....
We feel Sorrow for His passing,But Joy for His receiving the final best gift Our Lord God ever gave to us through Him...His Memories,and ability to remember Him with pride,for making a difference.
too many people live a life without ever saying they made a difference,This Marine wasnt one of those.
He makes me proud to see young men of His character,strength,and sacrifice.
Proudly Serving us,and making our enemies see the error of their ways.
SEMPER FIDELIS MARINE....
Your truly One Of The Few,The Proud,The Marines.
You Will Be Missed...God Speed,and God Bless.
To His family I say simply this,"THANK YOU...I'll never forget Him."
Mike Dillemuth of baltimore md

"thank you 2nd Lt James Cathey.God bless you and your family.That they be strong.you are in our prayers!"
judd lindley of omaha ne

"I sent this E-mail out to hundreds of people, because they should know about Jim.

Wow. This is a story of a soldier – and his wife and family.

Almost every day I see the headlines of yet "another" soldier's death in Iraq, but forget all too quickly that each has a unique and poignant story to tell. Well, here's another soldier's story – Jim's story. It has moved me and brought me back to reality – the reality that we're at war and people are dying – and that these soldiers are real men and women, with real stories, fighting for you and me and our country. And sometimes their story ends with "paying the ultimate sacrifice". Like Jim's did.

Well, here's the story of Jim and Katherine and James Jr. – a story that affects so many lives.

Marine 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey, 24, of Reno, Nevada.

James Cathey died of injuries caused by an improvised explosive device while conducting combat operations near Al Karmah, Iraq. He was assigned to 2nd Battalion, 2nd Marine Regiment, 2nd Marine Division, II Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Lejeune, North Carolina. He died on August 21, 2005.

I first "stumbled" upon this page, with a couple incredible photos:

http://www.kgoam810.com/viewentry.asp?ID=346913&PT=PERSONALITIES

Which lead me to do some additional research.

Please take some time to read this series of incredible articles from the Rocky Mountain News:

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224657,00.html

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224665,00.html

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224681,00.html

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224682,00.html

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224684,00.html

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224687,00.html

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news/article/0,1299,DRMN_3_4224692,00.html

and finally...

http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/local/article/0,1299,DRMN_15_4387840,00.html

Amen."
Tom Payne of Concord, CA

"To the family of 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey. Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers on the death of James. I will especially remember Katherine in this time of painful loss.

I am part of the Cathey clan, a North Carolinian and a retired clergyman. I am interested in discovering the family connection if you so desire."
Gordon M. Cathey of Ft Myers, Florida

"We are here because of you - because of everyone else serving like you. I am sorry we lost you. I cry for your entire family. Your wife has made so many people stop and think as she laid by your casket. I will never complain again about my husband leaving his dirty socks on the floor, instead I will hug him and sleep next to him every night thanking you for our freedom and thanking your wife for the love she showed the world. You are both heroes to me."
Kathi Klawitter of Millville, New Jersey

"The ultimate sacrifice given for your country. Your memory and legacy will live forever. May God bless your family and give them a peace that passes all understanding."
Lloyd of Cedar Park, TX

"God bless you and your baby Katherine. We will always remember the supreme sacrifice your husband made for America and for all the freedom -loving people of the world."
Nene of Siasi, Sulu, Philippines

"Lt. Cathey, your service and Ultimate sacrifice is proof that the U.S. IS the Land of the free and the Home of the brave. To Mrs. Cathey, thank you. Your sacrifice will always be remembered."
John Theobald Spc. U.S. Army (Ret.) of Peoria, IL USA

"I read about your husband today here in Hong Kong in the South China Morning Post. He was a very brave man. Please accept my heartfelt sympathies to you and your family."
Mark Peter Verwymeren of Hong Kong (via Newport beach CA.)

"Words can not describe the gratitude felt for for this American HERO. Thank you and we will never forget your sacrifice!!"
S. Armstrong of Charlotte, NC

"Mrs Cathey, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, your son, and your family. My name is TSgt Colleen Garra and I lost my brother SSG Sean Huey, he was KIA on 11 Nov 04. You see I was e-mailed the pictures of your husbands casket flying into Reno and of you laying beside him one more time and I was truly touched by your love and devotion for one another. Your husband will truly live on forever in your son and I hope he grows up to be the same type of man his father was. Your strength is amazing and I wish you nothing but the best this life has to offer.

2LT Cathey, thank you sir, for fighting for our freedom. You are truly a hero. Rest in peace..."
Colleen of Fort Bragg NC

"Thank you."
angela of johnson city, tn

"James aka kitty cat,
You were my hero since the day we met. You touched my life in a way that no one else could and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of your and your family. If your son is just a fraction of the person you are he will be destined for greatness. God Bless.

Love,
Mindy"
Mindy Carrothers of Denver, CO

"Sincerest Gratitude from this American, and deepest heartfelt sympathy to the family.

May God Bless and comfort you.

Semper Fi."
R. McGraw of Alabama

"Semper Fi Marine. May the Lord welcome you home."
Chris Green of Corpus Christi, TX

"i have a question for you guys. my grandfather was a WWII vet and recently passed away. it was brought to our attention that he saved many lives do to an airplane crash that he wittnessed. he pulled some soldiers from the wreckage before it exploded. he has never received recognition for this, and just recently spoken about it. do you know of any one i might could talk to about this? please email me at cwilliam@sckans.edu or call @ 620-229-6357. thank you very much for yur time. chass"
chass of winfield kansas

"I saw a photo of you arriving home in Time Magazine. In the photo, Marines were placing a flag over your coffin as passengers on the flight watched.

Although I never knew you, in my mind, you are a HERO. You have died nothing less than a hero's death. This Country honors and respects your sacrifice.

God bless you, this great Country and our President. If is wasn't for brave people like you, the United States would not be the beacon of light and hope that it is in this troubled world. Thank you for all you have done, all you have been, and all that you are. Marines like you are a special breed, a step above the normal man-- Marines like you say to their fellow citizens, "the bullies of the world aren't going to hurt you, not on my watch." More importantly, when you say those words, you mean it. You are ready to back them up-- with force if necessary. You are the greatest form of hero.

May God rest your soul Lt. Cathey. God bless you and your family. Thank you."
Ed Cottone of Irvine, California, USA

"THANK YOU FOR BEING AN INSPRIRATION TO
MY SON.HE TRULY ADMIRED AND RESPECTED
YOU.YOU HAVE GIVEN THE ULTIMATE SACRIFIC.
GOD'S GRACE AND LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY."
Connie Hamilton RN of Clayton,NC/USA

"I read an article in one polish newspaper... history and photos were very sad... You were a brave man, and I hope that Your child will be as good man as You. Candles for Your soul [']['][']"
Tomas Jarmola of Poland

"2nd Lt. Cathey was one of the fewest and the proudest...a Marine Raider. He served with Golf Company, 2/2 and neither his brothers in Golf Company or those who are associated with them will ever forget him or any of the fallen Raider heroes. Semper Fi Marine!"
John C. Dunn of Seattle, WA

"I have read the article in the Sunday Times magazine regarding the death of this brave man and his family that is left behind. The photographs are absolutely haunting. My families prayers and thoughts are with you all."
Craig Gardner of England

"I have just read the very moving events surrounding the final home coming of U.S. marine james j. Cathey in the Sunday Times magazine, jan.8th.2005.
My thoughts are with all of you."
Marianne Beck of Harwich Essex. UK orig. from the Netherlands

"I think your son/husband is absolutely amazing, a true HERO! I have been moved to tears many times about your story, your loss and your precious gift of a new life. I was first introduced to the "Final Salute" on Thanksgiving day...I cryed about it for quite a while. I have managed to think about it everyday since then. Having a son of my own...I couldn't imagine the pride you must feel, but the feeling of such a loss at the same time. I am so sorry! He will be in not only your thoughts and memories but many others that may not even have known him. I am truly sorry for your loss. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL, ANGELS WATCH OVER YOU!"
Jeannette Helgeson of Westminster, Colorado

"Dear James,
I spent Christmas Eve reading about you and your wife in the Rocky Mountain News. Crying with her. Man, the way she loves you. I don't think I ever heard of a woman loving a man as much as that.
You must be one incredible human being.
She's going to raise your son up to be just as fine, in his own way, as you. She is brave and true, and she will go on living brave and true. God bless the three of you. You are an eternal, immortal family because your love has touched all of us, and is helping to transform the world. Every American, every Iraqi, receives the gift of your life with a grateful heart. Without our beloved heroes we cannot live, we cannoy surmount the terrible obstacles to freedom. You faced them and overcame them for us, and we thank you and will cherish you always."
Dr. Deborah Hall of McLean, Virginia

"I served with 3/4 in 85 after I returned from Beirut. They were in Lejuene at the time. Attached to 6th Marines. As a 19 year old at the time, I had the honor of retrieving from our enemy the remains of one of our Naval aviators who was killed in action on Dec 4th, 1983. The weight that one bears on the soul years after is immense. Losing fellow Marines was like losing many brothers. You never forget them. Ever. You think about them at least once each day. You look to the sky at night and realize that in an infinant universe, there is certainly a higher power. We will all meet again in a better place. Semper Fi."
Mike of Teacher, Brooklyn NY

"Cat, you were my Brother, not a day goes by and I don't think of you. A true leader and a great friend. I miss you"
Matthew Hays of San Diego

"To the Cathey family,

Please know that your son is a hero. Please know that his cause is just. Please know that James' sacrifice will NEVER be in vain, that many brave Marines have been able to come back home because of his being there. My family will always be grateful for that fact. Our prayers are with you."
Easter of Reno, NV

"to the family of James Cathey

He was a very good man and I remember him from his semester of rotc at reno high with us. He will be deeply missed and i am sorry for your loss."
jl of Reno, Nevada

"I am 16 years old, and I just read the Rocky Mountain News about your son. All I have to say is...wow, your son was amazing."
Alex of Denver

"-CAT-
You are the man bro. It was an honor serving with you, 3rd herd Sir! You are the true definition of a marine and I am forever blessed for the privledge of knowing you. God bless you...Semper Fi brother!"
Chris and Audrey Wiley of Downey, Ca

""Here's to the good days of apples and cars!" Cat and I were best friends through our childhood and will continue to be for eternity. His honor and valor lead him to the marines and he in turn lead his men with that same honor and valor. My deepest condolences go out to Jeff, Caroline, Joyce and Katherine as we all share the same grief, the loss friend, son brother and husband; the loss of a "Prince of a Man!" I ask that all who knew James and even those who didn't remember him as a hero, for James anything less would be unjust."
Brandon Etchemendy of Reno, NV

"Cat...you are a true hero....you were destined to be the next comdandant, but I guess God had better plans, the way I see it he saw saw an awesome leader and said "I need this boy!" Thats the only way I can see it.... for those who knew James know he was the cream of the crop, he was elite....and those who knew him know...it does not get beter than James! The Graffs"
Nathan Graff of Honolulu, HI

""Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they've made a difference. The Marines don't have that problem." -President Ronald Reagan 1985

My sharp hand-salute to you, Marine!"
Fred Christie '66-'72 of Goffstown, NH

"Cat-You are our boy. We won't forget you and the good times we shared. To the family and loved ones-be strong, that is what Jim would have wanted."
2nd Lt Jon Mueller of Quantico, VA

"I knew the Cathey family growing up and I am very greatful for that. I remember Jimmy being a very happy and energetic person. He leaves behind a great family and I pray for his wife that I have never met.
I hope the Cathey family finds closure soon. He will be missed."
Jacky Warner of Reno, Nevada

"From: Sgt Karl Clark Lippard’s book about Marines and the USMC:

“…reflect with me a moment on a statement made by the exiled Spartan King Demaratus to the Persian kind Xerxes before the battle of Thermopyle in 480 B.C. describing his beloved Spartans.

“When the Spartans fight singly they are as brave as any man, but when they fight together they are supreme above all. For though they are free men, they are not free in all respects; law is the master whom they fear, a great deal more than your subjects fear you. They do what the law commands and its command is always the same, not to flee in battle whatever the number of the enemy, but to stand and win, or die.”

To you the fallen Marine, you’ve given your life to a great and noble cause. You know hold a special place in the Marine Corp and history. Marine you have sacrificed for the greatest cause of all, Freedom. An entire country is now free for the first time in living memory and your name will forever be remember in Marine Corp history. In the years to follow as other countries in the Middle East start to follow the great freedom principle, it’ll be men like you will stand above and look down on a safer and more secure and peaceful world.
Thank you.
Cpl. M USMC 84-88"
SM of New York

"To Katherine, Joyce, Jeff, and Carol,
My wife and I will always keep "cat's" memory alive. I served with cat in Hawaii and in Super Squad. I know his Son will be more than proud of what he has done for other's and most of all his country. We loved your son and husband. WE WILL NEVER FORGET HIM!"
Stanley and Aracely LLaban of Ontario, Ca./ USA

"TO THE FAMILY OF JAMES J. CATHY
JAMES IS A HERO TO ALL OF US, MY SON NICK WAS ALSO IN 2/2 AND WAS TAKEN ON AUG 13, 2004. LEAVE YOU SELF IN GODS HANDS AND REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES . GOD BLESS"
PEGGY MORRISON of NEWVILLE,PA

"You are a hero. May the flight of angels speed you to your rest."
Matt of Dutchess County, NY

"We are deeply sorry for your loss. The Courage, Honor, and Valor that your
Hero showed will always be remembered.
We are grateful for the loyal service and sacrifice that was made and
WE WILL NEVER FORGET.
Our cousin LCPL Michael Smith Jr. gave his life on 4-17-04 fighting for freedom.
Please know that this was not in vain and these American Heros will FOREVER be honored.
God Bless your family and please know that you are not alone.
All of our prayers are with you."
Jennifer and SSGT Larry Mays of Massillon, Ohio

"To The Cathey Family,
May God's love and comfort be with you during this time of loss. You are in my prayers and thoughts. My son is in 2/2 as well. I will forever be greatful to both James and your family for your sacrifice. God bless you!!"
Marsha of Punxsutawney, PA

"To the family and friends of 2nd Lt. James J. Cathey,

Those we hold most dear, never truly leave us. May you find comfort in love's everlasting connection.

In the Support section of this web site you will find links to many groups that support you at this crucial time. The Marine Comfort Quilt group would be honored to send a quilt to the next of kin. There are many, loving and caring Americans from all over the United States that will never forget the sacrifice that your loved one has made for our Freedom. Please use our link and register so we can send you our "Love Stitched Together."

Proud Marine Mom and Proud Member of Marine Comfort Quilts "
Sandra Moudy of Placentia, Ca USA

"CAT: THANK YOU FOR SERVING OUR COUNTRY AND ALONG SIDE OUR SON. WE LOST GREGORY LAST YEAR. AN ONLY RECENTLY; A CONVERSATION I SHARED WITH HIM,CLICKED! DAD NEVER WORRY OF ME. I AM IN DO HANDS. I HAVE THOUSANDS OF BROTHER'S AND SISTER'S WATCHING OVER ME. DAD REALLY, MARINE'S, NAVY, AIR FORCE, COAST GUARD AND ARMY ONE HUGE FAMILY CALLED AMERICAN'S. ALWAYS WATCHING OVER ONE ANOTHER! SO JAMES THANK YOU FOR WATCHING OVER OUR SON. JAMES YOU HAVE TOUCHED THE HEARTS OF MANY. THE MANY YOU HAVE HOLD MANY MANY FOND MEMORIES YOU SHARED WITH THEM. CAT YOU ANSWERED A HIGHER CALLING NTHEN MOST AMERICAN'S EVER CARED TO DO! YOU ARE MY HERO! ONE NEVER EVER TO BE FORGOTTEN EVER!"
LEONARD WAHL of VALLEY STREAM NY

"To James' Family and friends:
I am deeply saddened and feel very much graditude to your husband! He actually left WITH my husband (though in different companies), and I cannot even being to imagine the pain this will have brought. I want you to know that I am so very pround of James and all the brothers whom are there fighting for us; the ones they love!! Remember, he did this to help protect the ones he loved most!! GOD BLESS!!"
of Midway Park, Camp Lejeune, NC

"Cat-
You were one of the best man. Without a doubt, you lead from the from the front and put your boys first. I pray for your wife and family and will never forget the time we spent together both in the field and garrison. I hope I am as capable and courageous as you were. Semper Fi, I'll see you again brother."

"MARINE 2ND LT JAMES J. CATHEY
You are an American Hero whose ultiamte sacrifice will not be forgotten by a grateful nation. Rest in peace brave Marine. You will be remembered for being faithful to God, Country, Family and the Corps. Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of James and may memories comfort you during this very difficult time and always. We are so sorry for your loss."
Brad & Dorothy Burt of Portsmouth, RI

"To The Cathey Family,
Our Family, Our City, Our Country grieves with you. We are so saddened by your loss. Your Soldier IS OUR HERO! We will never forget him or the others who have paid the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless You and your Brave Marine..Semper FI!"
S. Grogan of Lakeland, TN

"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness,
and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief.
Our nations HERO, James will be remembered by name.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless you ALWAYS.
Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana "

"Thank you James Cathey, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios

"To the family and friends of 2nd Lt. James Cathey:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless James for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada

"To the family and friends of 2nd Lt. James Cathey:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of James, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia